Ok, well I need to tell a guy in the nicest way possible that I'm not interested. And, well I don't know how and i absolutely cannot hurt him. I'd love to go out with him...but it'd be complicated and i just got out of a relationship so help me!
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How do you tell someone your not interested?!
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When Im in that situation I either:A. Lie and tell him Im already involved with someone, orB: Be completely honest about why I cant date him
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neither of those will work, he knows i just broke up and i cant just say that i dont want to go out with him, because that wont make the damn flowers and chocolates stop.
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Well if you cant lie, and you cant be honest, there's not much left to do. Maybe if you just ignored it he'd get the hint after awhile?
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Well Rox since i know who you're talking about i cant tell you to just come out and tell him how you feel. Its the only way
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Nooooooo there has to be some simple solution out of this. screams
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In reply to:
there has to be some simple solution out of this
That's thinking like an American!
Seriously, though, there's not an easy way out of it. He sounds persistent, so even if he did leave you alone at first, he'll probably be back. You just have to be open and tell him that you don't want to date him. -
I see him every single day. It will make things awkward (more then getting starbucks with a pretty red bow on it in the mornings) and I cant tell him I dont want to date him because in any other circumstances I would. Im a horrible lier and if i open my self up to say "well i do want to date you just not now" would be like saying keep trying till i break down and omg im making this so much more complicated then it has to be.
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you could just tell him that your still not completely over your last bf and it would be unfair to him if you did start dating..just tell him your not ready
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In reply to:there has to be some simple solution out of this The simple solution is being honest with him. Sit him down and explain why you're not 'ready' to date him and let him know that even though you are interested in him you just can't be with him at this point in your life. Honesty is the best road to take in this situation.
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Well you should tell him that right now isn't a time for you to be dating.. tell him if he's still interested in the future that you two could give it a go
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Yea, be honest. I hate it when a girl lies to me in a situation like this, it hurts even more.
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well he's really into you and he's not gonna give up that easily. Either go out with him or break his heart.......ur choice.
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Alright, tell me how you'd say no to them basically saying the most amazingly romantic thing you've ever heard, that basically makes your knees weak on spot. Dammit. "I have to get back" isnt going to work forever. dies HELMS! ATA7! I need help! Get on msn and help meeeeeee