I never really thought about guys faking orgasms until i was talkin to my male friend today. He said that he was wearing a condom and the girl he was having sex with just wasnt doing it for him. He tried imagining she was someone else, but he just couldnt cum. He was starting to go soft so he pulled out, grunted, let out a few moans and went to the bathroom to "dispose of the cum-filled condom". Any of you men ever faked it before?
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Guys can fake it too?
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yup... I certainly have though I'm not proud of it.
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I appreciate your honesty. I didnt think any guys would admit it.
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Girls seem to pride themselves in it.So why should guys be afraid to admit it?
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never had, never needed to.
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you ever watched a guy when he busted a nut?Why would I ever want to look that stupid with out getting the benifit of an orgasm?I never fake it, I will find a way to finish no matter what it takes
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In reply to: So why should guys be afraid to admit it? Well they shouldn't be afriad to admit it, but obviously they are.
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i dont think girl neccesarily 'pride' themselves if they fake one..well i wouldnt feel like that
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You always make me smile, grvtykllr. Don't ever change.
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I make those stupid faces, and it's usually when I'm clothed and hanging out with friends lmao
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HAhaha.. I remember my ex bf.. I'd have to close my eyes because it was a really big turn off.
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it was one of those things were you couldn't get into the mindset of doing it. I know... I'm probably one of the few guys on the planet who isn't "permanently" in the mood.I didn't want to make her feel bad so I continued until she was satisfied and pretended I was having a blast. I felt really guilty about it for awhile. And I was kinda ashamed of myself cuz I'm supposed to be a guy and their supposed to be able to get off every time lol.ah well... i'm unique i guess
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Yep, I've done it. I don't do it often, but the times I have faked it is to intensify my girlfriend's orgasm. Explanation? Continue reading...I think many would agree with me that some of the best sex experiences are when the two of you cum together. She moans, you moan, she moans louder, you moan a little louder than you last did, pretty soon your both just moaning and it's not long until you're both laying there for a little while not moving. It's harmonic and beautiful.So, why would I fake it? To simulate this feeling for her. Her hearing you can intensify her orgasm and in the end increases her level of satisfaction of the experience. It's great.If any of you guys are interested. This is my thing. Wearing a condom is the best way to fake it, otherwise you better have came a few times before and claim you were shooting blanks. So, when she's reaching her orgasm, moan along with her. Be aware of what you sound like when you moan naturally and duplicate it. As for myself, I moan low and deep but not loud. So I press my cheek against hers (assuming we're in missionary or some alteration of that position) and I moan in her ear, making sure there is a bellow of moist warm air flowing past her ear. When you feel her contract, use unrythemic thrusts, grip onto her with your hands, and concentrate on making your penis "jump".lol. I swear, I'd make a fortune if I wrote a book.
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oh ok, thats a different take on the situation. Do you ever feel guilty? Like you are, in a way, betraying her?
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No worries, I have no plans of changing :wink:
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Nope, I cannot recall a time I ever felt guilty and I don't think I'm betraying her at all. I usually approach sexual intimacy as being a way to please your partner. A selfless action.Ask yourself this question. Why do people like to know their partner came or not? Because they want to make sure the other person is satisfied and happy. I don't put too much emphasis on my own orgasm because I'll be in a great mood if she's happy regardless if I came or not.Besides... with my current girlfriend, we usually cum a few times each whenever we mess around so it's not like I didn't cum at all. haha.