Hi, I'm 16 and at a school here in the UK. Loads of people I know have had sex and all before they're 16...
They all make a big deal about it and everything, and talk about it...I am ready to have sex with a girl I think, but is it normal to have sex before your 16? What's the average age? I was just wondering because I get worried that people will laugh at me for not 'doing it'.
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Everyone but me...
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only do it when you are ready. It is not important to do it b/c others are. There is plenty of time to do it. When you fully understand your actions and know what can happen and what is involved with feelings and pleasure and such. Then do it. Just remember, do not do anything that you will regret b/c once you have sex 1 time your virginity is gone. So just something to think about.The average age I imagine is dropping as more and more the ideal of having sex becomes embedded. The pressure to be "cool" is increasing the peer pressure for young guys/gals to have sex. I am gonna say that most of the really young people that do it have not a clue about what they are truely doing.
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I'm from Britain too and I'm a 17 yearold virgin. From talking to foriegners I have gathered that we in the UK have among the most lax attitude towards sex in our generation, but that doesnt make it right. You and I may or may not be the norm, but that doesnt mean were any worse off.
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The only thing I would add is to not assume that all your friends are telling you the truth.
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if you're not ready, don't.
People today think of sex as a chore, and virginity as a disease. They want to do it and get it over to say they did.
If you're a virgin, and not ready, if they say something, be proud you're not going around f**king random people just to say you did. Let them know you're proud you have morals and see sex as something that is shared with someone special, not just someone taking a piss in the street.I set the blame soully on rap music, if it didn't tell kids how cool it is hahahaha not really though xD
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In reply to: I set the blame soully on rap music, if it didn't tell kids how cool it is hahahaha not really though xD I know it's a joke, but it's not too far from the truth. Not just rap non-music, but a reckless, irresponsible media in general.
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He didnt say he had morals.
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Some people who have done it talk about it, and some more who haven't pretend they have. The others say nothing. I think fewer than half at 16 have in fact done it.
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Most people that brag about it, are just guys that got laid for the first time, and that's all they cared about.Or they're full of crap. Most, not all, but most guys that have sex, don't go braging about it. They'll probably tell if someone asks, but they don't brag about it....much.
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well i've made it 14 years without sex, and the actual age around the world for first time sex is 11, this is including the people in the mid-eastern area that have sex when they are like 5 lol.
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5??? ewwwww wrong wrong wrong