My Girlfriend and I are very sexually active. about a week ago she began to have redness and peeling of skin around the vaginal area and below, figuring that we just have been doing it too much we stopped for a few days. well after 3 days i noticed the same peeling and redness on my penis. we both have been tested and have no std's and my girlfriend is on birth control but we have not been using condoms. we are both wondering what this is and if we need to treat it or just lay off the sheets for a while and it will go away.thanks.