I posted here a long time ago, asking whether or not I should spend a nite with my boyfriend, by sneaking out of course, and saying I was at a 'friends' house. Well, I never got to go because we were caught with possesion, and my dad put me on house arrest until I turn 18, in June. So, because of all this, Ian [bf] decided we shouldn't see eachother, because of my father not allowing us. He's coming over this weekend though, to my mom's house, and so I will see him then. But I still have feelings for Ian. I don't know if he feels the same, I know he doesn't have anyone yet, and I just want to know if it would be okay to make moves or what. I'm so confused right now..I have tried all I can to get my dad to meet him and see what kind of person he can be, but my dad said no. What do I do?! Should I flirt with Ian or is that wrong? Please help..? :blush:+ :confused:
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Oh dear..
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Go ahead and flirt, it is worth a shot. You didn't break up because either one of your feelings changed, just a situation, so there is a good chance he still has feelings for you too.Good luck.
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Are you almost 18? Because if you are 16 or just 17, your dad is an ass and has no right to lock you up like that. Was it posession of dope? What does your mom say about it? You seem old enouph to make decisions so flirt with Ian.
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when she's 18 she can date him... until june tho its his rules.
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Yes, I am almost 18! My dad, he doesn't trust me. I have had sex three times, and only with two people. Whom I've known for 2 yrs+. And I felt I was ready. The man made me write him a letter, which he never responded to when I asked him. And I am working at a fast food restaruant because that is what I need to get used to because I am going to be there for a long time. I have to volunteer at a drug/homeless mothers shelter too! He's called me a whore/slut/etcetcetc..and it's not right. I don't think it is at least. And it was marijuana that I was caught with. It's ridiculous! Thank you sooo much for the responses, I am going to go for it! You seem to help many people. So thank you, it is so very very very much appreciated!
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In reply to: And I am working at a fast food restaruant because that is what I need to get used to because I am going to be there for a long time. Your not going to college?
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That's the thing! I have scholarships and everything I need for college! I'm trying so hard to win his trust, and it's getting old, fast..I am graduating this year. Yes, I am doing something with my life to help other people..
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It sounds like your father is very controlling, and that can be very bad. I know one father who made his daughter look after him all his life - and he lived until his late 90s. By the time he died and she was free, she was quite an old woman herself. Don't let that happen to you - move out as soon as you can. It's clear that your father won't let you go to college and you'll get nothing from him, so move out, support yourself, and study part-time.