Why did your past relationships end?

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Why did your past relationships end? I always here "It didn't work out.", but that's a little vague. I'm just curious about reasons why people break up.

people cant/dont always evolve at the same rate as others, grow apart. People change. I'm lucky and havent had anyone cheat on me or anything, Im just at a point in my life where things are changing.

Erm...she didnt say, but i have a feelin its coz she found someone who looked nicer than me, which aint hard lol

he totally contradicted himself. he always wanted to hang around me, he always wanted to go farther. and then he broke up with me because he wanted to hang out more with his friends and thought we were going too fast...

Inequalities in emotional attachment to eachother.

He cheated on me with some ugly fat bitch !!

In reply to: ugly fat bitch Thats a little unnecessary, mean, and, shallow.

a huge fight and I mean huge because she asked me if I loved her after the first date and I didn't answer

she broke up with you cause you didnt say you loved her on the first date? wow, what a nutcase she was.

you have no idea!

i haaaaaate people that decide they love you after like one date. its so rediculous.

Ohh no it is the truth.

Because personality means nothing.

Im sorry, it just bugs me when people make fun of the overweight.

I am overweight.Her personality is very dry. She's soo annoying.I remember him calling me afterwards telling me how much of a mistake he made and he told he how annoying and bitchy she was and how nasty he felt when he was with her.

Insecurities withen ourselves (althought predominately more so on me).Growing differences in levels of attachment.I totally attribute a large part of it to the fact she was really close with another guy friend she openely admitted to being more attracted to (and now she is dating him).deep rooted psychological reasons (seriously... and on both sides!)

Trust issuesSelf-Esteem issuesJealousy issuesLevel of satisfactionThe first three are all tied together.My girlfriend couldn't trust me and her reason was because all her past boyfriends cheated on her... I can sympathize, but don't treat me like your past boyfriend who cheated on you. I'm haven't cheated yet and really don't plan to. If I'm interested in another person, I'll break up.Self-Esteem. EXTREMELY LOW self-esteem on her part. She used to cry and cry and cry about how she didn't think anyone could be happy with her body and she always told me she was extremely satisfied with mine and that it just wasn't fair... She fails to realize I think personality is what makes someone attractive for the most part.Because she had low self-esteem and trust issues, on came the jealousy. The simple question "Hey, let's go to the mall" might as well been "Hey, let's go to hell". Seriously. If she even remotely had a feeling that I looked in the general direction of another female, she would get pissed. So then I tried looking at the ground 90% of the time and then I got in trouble for not having any fun. It's a lose lose situation. I couldn't even mention another female in passing without her making a big deal of it.Level of satisfaction was very poor on my part. She was very happy with me. I'm "very well trained" as a lot of mothers have put it. But, I can't be with someone who is super pessimistic. I really love being able to make my girl happy, and I could do that for her, but it was only in spurts.

There were trust issues, self-esteem issues (that was mine), jealousy issues (his because I have more male friends than female friends), and also because he lied to me about several things such as his drug problem, his alcohol problem, and his problem with keeping his pants up when ever a pretty girl was around. He was a real winner, let me tell ya! I don't do drugs, I don't drink very often, and I DO NOT cheat, there is no point in it. He was older and I was a bit on the nieve side...thankfully I woke up and saw all the problems with 'our' relationship before it was too late.