Help!! everyone thinks I am taken but I'm free...

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Hey everyone, I'm a cute looking 21 year old female who hasn't been asked out on any dates lately. It's true that I haven't really been hanging out at bars or clubs and when I go out during the day I don't really go out of my way to communicate with others. Plus, a lot of people have said that they assumed I was taken already, just because I am good looking and they are surprised that I am single. The problem is that I think that I'm not good looking enough or something since I am not being asked out but I know this is not true (I just feel this way as a result). I see a lot of cute guys that I would want to go out on a date with if I were brave enough to ask them out. Another problem, when I see a cute guy I sort of freeze and either pretend I'm not interested or run away from them too fast and then they must think that I don't like them. Help, I need some advice!!! Thanks

Hey, well if your cute looking and you want someone. Why not try internet dating?? Or get over your fears and start hnting for dates. flirt with cute cuys u like and give them hints that you are interested.

the problem is that I don't want to appear desperate or easy so I tend to play hard to get...lol

It will happen sooner or later. Go somewhere where you can sit still for a while. Maybe a coffee shop with couches. Something like that. Eventually, a guy will pass through and decide to strike up conversation with you. Or, if the club is your thing, that would be the place to go. More single people go to clubs than not.

city_chick do not worry...I am 21 as well, and well I have never been on a date. But no reason to worry if you have confidence in yourself and let everyone see that, you will get a date.

well please do not do that...Plus she is in Canada genius...

Asking a guy out or flirting with him doesn't mean you are desperate at all. As long as you are confident and not begging him to go out with you he won't think any less of you. If you want to go out on a date, stop waiting for things to happen to you and be proactive!

Men can be intimidated by attractive women.

Yes, apparently models have a hard time finding men, because men assume they're out of their league.