Well I am lost...a great friend of mine, well she no longer wants to be a close friend of mine. I have known her for 2 years and she has had a sickness and she has helped me through so much and as I hope I have helped her. But just recently she said that she no longer wants that. It is really depressing...all the history disappearing. It is comparable to having your heart torn out, this is really sad....I care about her so much.
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Friends....
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That doesn't sound nice =(. Did she just come right and say she didn't want to be friends anymore? If so did she give a reason?I've lost good friends before but it tended to be over time, losing someone like that must suck. I'm here for ya man .
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she is having problems having me in her heart, but not being with me....I do not know really, she did and cannot even say...It is no fun.
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Oh I see. So she has those kind of feeling for you, but you don't have them for her and want to stay good friends?
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no i do...we are on opposite sides of the states
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thats tough. the most i think you can do is let her know you will always, always be there for her and help her. and even if she doesnt want to be friends, you'll always consider her one
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Oh I see, I misinterpreted that pretty badly.I have to go with Java on this one, it would be a very hard road to try to convince someone to still be friends (in this circumstance), so just do what java said and hope for the best.
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I did...she told me to stop..
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K so she and I talk as friends still. But I am noticing it is becoming increasingly difficult and it is hard b/c she constatnly wants to arguue and is starting to not enjoy our talks as much. I try so hard every convo to keep us from arguing. I can tell that she really likes the new and I told her it is good that she has someone. I think though there is something that is causing her to be violent towards me.
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Are you purhaps to clingy as a friend? Just a thought. It can be off putting for some people.
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I am not sure. I am doing my best to avoid conflict and it is going well.
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Okay we talked a lot about it. I figured out the problem. What are we supposed to do we know each other too well...nothing new to talk about.