hey i'm new here..great site by the way..but okay so i've made out with a lot of girls (i'm a 15 year old guy) and right now i've been going out with a girl for about 3 months and we've been making out for a while and i'm not sure what to do next
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What to do after kissing
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what's wrong with talking to her? If you're to the stage of making out, then you should be able to talk to her, see what level she's ready to go to next, if she's ok with where you both are at.
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How about talking to her and NOT going to the "next stage".Do you realize how much guys miss out on in relationships because they rush to the sex, and then the relationship is all about sex. And while that's fun and all, it's not much to base a relationship on.So you gotta ask yourself what are you in this thing for. Sex? Well then there's that. But if you're in it for a "relationship" it needs to be based on getting to know each other and spending time doing things and talking and being around other people together and that sort of thing. The sex can wait. Your bits and pieces will always be there.And by the way, my two cents is always free.
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completely agree with damien^^so many guys do miss out of relationships because they rush sex not cool
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good point damien. A lot is lost in todays relationships b/c of this focus on sex. Just enjoy the kissing and making out. That is the most sensual thing you can do.
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Damien is right again. And, remember, you're only 15 years old. You've got lots of time to take things to the next level. Don't rush.
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Completely Agree with Damien.
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What Damien said. 3 months is hardly anything - if you can't enjoy your relationship without sex then it's not a very good one.