Married but still......

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i am married now for less than a year
but i still masturbate and like doin it
without my wife knowing about it
i like to watch porn and sometimes make sex phone
with other girls, this make me soo horny.
what can i do to make sex with my wife as good as
masturbating alon?? or does anyone there
have the same fetish??

masterbation is normal. I was married for years and we both masterbated, alone and together.
The phone sex with other women is infidelity so you should stop. Try it with your wife while you or she are away from home.

Agreed...NO PHONE SEX, slowly introduce your wife to masturbating with you together, that can be very erotic.

it is very hard to stop what i am doing nowi wish i have this fantasy for my wifebut i dont know why i am always looking for other girlsspecially on phone

Masturbation is 100% normal and nothing wrong with doing it when married,

I agree with the other though, you should stop the phone sex. Its one thing to use your imagination and masturbate about other girls, but to actually use a live woman... well I am sure that would not go over well with your wife.

How would you feel if she was masturbating to live men on the phone?

There is no way you can have the kind of relationship you want with your wife as long as you are being unfaithful to her...which you are.I suggest looking for an SA group in your community.

I dont think it eactly unfailthful to jerk off on the phone.No physical contact and never met the girl, just a phone sex hotline.I personally think phone sex is stupid, I cant get into it I just feel retarded, lie cyber se, what the hell is the point ?my fiance wouldnt be too happy about it if I was doing it but I dont think its cheating, eactly. If its girls you know thats a whole other story, there is an actual connection there.otherwise its just a waste of money.

I guess it's all how you view it. If I caught adam jerking off on the phone with another guy, he's be in DEEP shit! I personally feel that is cheating because there is another live person involved, I don't care of there is no physical contact or not.But that's me lol

if its a phone sex line, dont view it as cheating, it still is after all jerking off, no contact, no meeting, no idea rally to who it is on the other end.If its someone you know on the other end, its a whole different story.a faceless stranger is lesslike cheating then a personal contact I guess. just how I feel about it and I think thats the key.Its how an individual feels about it and more importantly how that individuals wife/husband/partner feels about it. there is no hard fast rule on phone sex or cyber sex being cheating like it is if I go hump some broad while im involved with another.its all whats in the minds of the people affected.

I have nothing against masturbaitng when in a relationship. hell i LOVE to masturbate, most people do.But having to resort to a stranger over the phone to release sexual tension instead of coming to me, is wrong IMO. To me that's cheating because you are interacting with another person.

like I said eddie, its all about that IMO part of it. I dont view it that way. you do, more important in my relationship with my fiance', she agrees with you on it. Thats what realy matters to me, is what SHE thinks of ot rather then what I think of it.If your partner thinks its cheating, you wont do much to convice them its not no matter what line of bullshit you got in yor head.If I caught my girl finger fucking her self to a frothy foam on the phone with some sex line, Id bitch about the bill she is running up, not about her cheating.

Id bitch about the bill she is running up, not about her cheating. LOL! I can believe that heheAnd you're right it's all about the IMO. I guess I'd like to think if my partner wanted another person involved he'd come look for me instead of calling some stranger on the phone. Hell even if I am not home and he wanted to call me and have me listen to him talk dirty to me as he masturbated I'd be cool with that LoL.

I's say it was cheating... just due to my own experiences. I guess the bottom line is would it hurt your partner's feelings? If it would, think of it as cheating.

like I said its not about what anyone says if it is or if it isnt, it about what thier partners feel. of course if your the partner and the other is the one jerking off on the phone, I suppose it is about what you say.Im lucky, I dont do it beause I feel stupid an can see th money flying away when I ould be doing it for free by just hanging up the phone.my GF considers it cheating, so like I sia, lucky I dont do it

My wife doesnt know about it,i tired to stopbut when her period camei got back to secretly Masterbating with pornand with girl on phone.it is really hard for me to stop, but i am trying

You didn't think this would be a problem BEFORE you got married??