Anal Stimulation

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Okay, to start this off, I'd like to state I'm NOT GAY. At the most, I'm bi-curious, but I like girls. However, I am abit adventurous, so a few times I've tried anal stimulation (I fingered my ass). Although I've had mixed results about what I thought about it, I've always noticed I cum better, faster and a bit more intense when I do this as opposed to regular ol' handy. So I ask1) Any reason why I come better? I sure it's not my prostat (I never went up that far), but every time I cum, I tighten my asshole.2) How can I do this better? I don't have acess to any adult shop, so what do I use? I tried a tampon once, and it sucked.3) Any tips for first-time anal masturbators? what lube, how big an impement, etc.Thank you all for your help.

reason why you cum better is because putting your finger in your ass probably turns you ondont worry even straight guys do it , i even know one who asked his g/f to do it to him during sex

First off the prostate isn't far up, only about 1.5".Also you don't need insertion, the anal opening is full of nerve endings that can drive you wild. As for Lubes and objects, use what you are comfortable with. You wouldn't start with a ball bat.find something, if you want to use a "toy", that you are sure will not cause damage. I myself find that sharpie markers with the rounded end are great. As for lubes, just simple ky works. If you want a little different feeling, use a warming lube. since you're already semi-experianced, just go for what you like, what feels good to you. You can go to a store such as spencers (if there is one near) and buy a "body massager" they're pretty cheap, usually $10-20

Thanks! Don't have KY or any other lube. Umm... Is there some that I can get at a Walgreens or CVS? I don't have acess to adult shops, and I can't get any on the 'net. Any useful house hold items? And a sharpie marker (the round end) really works? Cool.

Hey! I found that CVS DOES hold lube! What's the difference between the KY jelly and the Warming jelly?

How can you just waltz in and buy the lube without getting a look from your neighborhood CVS cashier?Walmart has self checkout, that is the best way to do it

sure you can. I've actually used personal lubricant on my bike chain when I didn't have any oil or motor lubrication.
The warming jelly warms on contact, and gets warmer when you breath on it. the best thing is to start with your fingers, lube yourself up, then use whatever next. I've used a sharpie on more than one accasion, it's just thing enough to slide in easily (even the bigger ones) and you can point it to the right spot. I myself, when I'm using it, and about to orgasm, I'll either press it against my prostate, or rotate it in circles so that it teases the prostate. Usually end up with a big mess to clean up off myself, but it was worth it.

Good point, coco! I think one of the cashiers knows me from school I'll check out Walmart and hope noone's lookingIf I use a sharpie, do I have to stick a condom on it? I mean, it's clean enough as is?

I would recommend using a condom, just so the lid doesn't come off. If you don't use one, just make sure you use the non-capped end and don't go in so far to where the lid would come off. You don't want any ink in there. "Non-toxic" doesn't mean "Non-filled-with-chemicals." Also, make sure you clean the Sharpie afterwards and keep it in a place where no one else will use it or touch it. Basically hide it like it's a dildo.

Well, I figured I'd make it a special sharpie only for anal play. It's like my special pube shaving razor. Anyway, any ideas on how to clean my ass? I'm not into the dirty style, an d I know that there's always going to be a mess, but anyway to minimize this?

well it depends on how fast you digest food, on when there will be stuff in your bowels.Try taking a poo a few hours ahead. You can use an enema to clean you out real well. Not sure if they sell those at walmart lolAnother thing you can do, is get one of those douche bottles, and fill it with warm water.Or if you don't mind, then you can just use lube, finger, and a sick full of warm/hot water, then wash your hands when your finished. Just go with what you think would be more comfortable for you.

In reply to:1) Any reason why I come better? I sure it's not my prostat (I never went up that far), but every time I cum, I tighten my asshole. This is because the nerve endings in the anus are kind of connected to the same nerve pathway as the nerves in the penis, ejaculatory tract, and prostate. If you noticed during orgasm, for each contraction in the penis and prostate as you ejaculate, the anal muscles contract too. In fact, you can't stop your anal muscles from contracting during orgasm, which is proof that the nerves in the anus are on the same nerve pathway as the penis and prostate. You cum better, and it feels better with something in the anus during orgasm, because whatever is in the anus during orgasm (finger, sharpie, dildo, whatever) is putting pressure on the nerve endings in the anus, and is basically just adding to the total stimuli coming from the penis and going to the brain, since its on the same nerve pathway. The more stimuli, the more powerful the orgasm. In reply to:2) How can I do this better? I don't have acess to any adult shop, so what do I use? I tried a tampon once, and it sucked. Try the handle end of a screwdriver. When you get more advanced, you can use a banana or a cucumber. Just follow these basic rules to be safe:1 - Always use LOTS of lube. You can never use too much lube, but if you don't use enough, you can get pain and damage the anal canal. 2 - Whatever you stick in there, make sure it is long enough that you can pull it back out. Never stick anything completely inside the rectum. If you have to force to 'poop it back out', you will get hemmorhoids (swollen veins in the anus). Make sure whatever you use can't get stuck. 3 - Never stick anything up there that is fragile or can break (i.e. glass). 4 - Always make sure the object you use has been washed and cleaned before you insert it. The rectum can absorb things directly into the bloodstream. Foreign bacteria, viruses, or chemicals on the object can get absorbed by the rectum and make you ill. Not to mention a tiny bit of anal bleeding is not uncommon with anal masturbation, and infection can occur that way as well. If whatever you are using is clean first, no worries. Hope this helps!

Hey, thanks! That really helps!BTW, at least how much lube should I at least use? I'm on a budget, and I don't want to use up a 5 dollar bottle each time I have a go.

Use a lot - be generous with it. You're better off using too much than too little. You can't use too much actually. 5 dollars a bottle? Forget KY and expensive lubes. I find Vaseline makes the best anal lube for masturbation. Just don't use it on a condom if you decide to ever have anal sex (or any sex). But for anal masturbation, Vaseline works great and is cheap.

VAseline? Really? I always heard it was bad. Anyway, I was told that if I were to stick anything up there, it should be wider at the base so it doesn't get stuck. How do I do that with, say, a sharpie?

Where did you here Vaseline is bad? There's nothing wrong with Vaseline, other than it can break down latex condoms and cause them to break. A wider at the base object is the safest, as the object will always want to come back out on its own. It's safer, but not necessary. A sharpie is fine, provided you don't stick it all the way in. Always make sure there is enough sticking out that you can grab it and pull it back out. As long as you do that, you're fine.