It's really weird, I'm really bad at talking to girls when I like them as more than a friend. I can talk to anyone just fine, but if I fall for someone I can't open my mouth. I'm 15 now and it's really bugging the f*** out of me. I've had some girlfriends before, but they usually asked me out, but when I want to ask someone I always chicken out.
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Just Can't Do It!
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Its most likely just nerves. You'll grow out of it.. just try to boost your confidence a bit
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I hear that a lot, infact I tell myself that all the time, but that's just not good enough for me, especially since I have no reason to be afraid of it. I'm good looking, intelligent, play lots of sports, most girls like me, and still I just can't ask them out!
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People could say the same about me.. but I'd still never ask anyone out.. fear of rejection
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Perhaps you're approaching the situation wrong. I used to be like that... and it didn't work for me. So, I read a few things hear and there, talked to some people, and came up with a new approach. Pretty soon I was setting up 3 dates a weekend... until I found my girlfriend. lol.I looked at things in a new perspective. EVERYTHING is practice when it came to females. Talking to girls in general, asking a girl out on a date, going out on a date, etc. It's practice because you can't fail. No matter what happens, you will gain something out of the situation. If you look at it as more of a test, you can fail a test.Approach every girl with confidence and no expectation. Be funny, tease girls light heartedly, and avoid saying anything about being friends. The easiest way to hook a girl is to not try to hook them. Let them come to you. When they're close and comfortable, that's when you spring out an invitation.There are a lot of steps when it comes to dating. Approaching, opening, begin date, middle date, closing of the date, future date maintenance.Now, some of you girls might be thinking I'm a player... and I might agree with you to a certain extent. But you must understand my perception of the "GAME"In my opinion, the "GAME" is impressing women. Which means every man who is trying to impress a woman is a player... the men who are good at impressing women are known to be players in the game, hence the term "player". Or, someone might say a guy has game. "he has game" is just another way of saying he has a way to impress women. As for the stereotypical idea of a "player", the guy to hooks up with a girl and then dumps her for the next one and does it again and again... I call them assholes.
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Wow, thanks, that must be the most helpful thing I've ever heard anyone say. Hmm...I like your point of view, I'll give it a shot.
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Give it a shot, and if it doesn't work then try something else. But I'm sure it will work. I'll PM you with some more information.