I know i posted about something similar to this a couple of weeks ago.. but this is just an on going thing in our relationship, i don't now if he's just getting lazy or getting it from somewhere else... we don't have sex often at all anymore... tonight i tried to and he didn't seem like he felt like it he even said "it doesn't matter.." it really hurt my feelings and i know he knew it did so we did it for maybe 1 or 2 min. (me doing all the work) he's usally all up for it any chance he can get. we usally finish off each other but he wouldnt really even let me do anything to him after i was thru.. after he tried to cum for maybe 15min he gave up and said he couldnt.. then we fell asleep, idk if its just our sex life going to hell or he's getting it somewhere else so he's never in the mood..... i know it sounds like i base our relationship around sex but im just worried that something is going on. he may be just "tired" now b/c he wakes up at 5am every morning to go to work. he's with his friends alot more, he never invites me places when they go out to eat or watch a movie at one of their houses and i don't know what to do he claims he loves me so much and wants to be together forever....
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Something still doesn't seem right...
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Things aren't looking good at the moment, and it's hard to judge the long-term prognosis. I think this needs a trusted counsellor - a third person that both parties can speak to in confidence can form a more impartial judgement of the future prospects. If my suspicions are correct this may be the only way.
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Is this the same bf you thought might be cheating and that you felt was flirting with your friend? If your screen name is any indication of your age, and he is going to work at 5 am, he must be older than you. There are a lot of warning signs here.
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yea thats what im afraid of.. he's 21 im 17. he may be getting bored with our relationship i don't know. i tried talking to him and he said he loves spending time with me.. but he he doesn't seem to show it anymore. either he's just getting lazy/bored or he's doing somethin he's not supposed to be. im not sure what to do