Ok..I've been dating this girl for about seven and a half months. We both agree that this is the best relationship we've both had in our lives. It's been amazing. Well, a week ago, I went on a week-long trip, and we e-mailed to stay in touch, and she cried all week because she missed me and stuff, so when I get back things were better than ever. But then they started going downhill. So today I was sick at school, and she comes home and tells me all these flirting-like stories shes had so I ask if she does that often when I'm not around..and she got defensive and said "I'm not flirting, why in the heck would you think that? DO YOU TRUST ME" and stuff. I also tend to have like a worrying problem sometimes in our relationship..I just get relationship-hypochondriac feelings, like shes mad at me, like shes gunna break up with me. So we got in this huge fight last night, and she told me I was a little obsessive and controlling, and I told her all the problems she had, and we both agreed to try to work them out. She said to never call her again, and that she will call me when she is ready to talk to me again. Of course I'm going to wait for her to call, but..do things like this usually turn out ok?
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Need Help..Big Problem with my girlfriend..
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Everyone needs space sometimes, it isn't necessarily a bad thing, however, i think you both need to sit, without arguing and shouting and listen to eachothers fears or problems, its obvious you have some, and so does she, talking about it is the best thing, she might be flirty, that might be her way, and there may not be anything to get worked up about, if you are controlling etc, that could be a problem, so you owe it to eachother to sit and discuss stuff and come to a place where you both feel comfortable with eachother, and more importantly that you are both aware of the things you each don't really like about eachother - for example, if flirting pisses you off, and she knows it, she can calm it down a little, and if your controlling pisses her off you can chill out a bit too. communication is the key - good luck
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angel, so great to see ya back....good advice...talk it over calmly, and it is okay to be wrong.
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Thanks Jon, good to be back