Controlling that woody
Alright so I have a pretty hot girlfriend (I think), and we hold hands, cuddle and make out alot. But there's a problem, I can't hold on to her without getting a stiffy. It's pretty embarrasing actually, because just putting my arms around her turns me on. How can I controll my erections?
I'm 17 by the way.
Sometimes there isn't a lot you can do but enjoy it. It shouldn't be embarrassing, its showing her that you really like her (it may not be a very conventional way, but it works).
I used to have a very similar reaction. Lots of different kinds of contact would give me an erection. Finally, I just gave up on being self-concious about it, and I didnt bother to hide it. She noticed one day, (of course) and just giggled and smiled. It all worked out good. We're still dating, and it's been quite a while. So dont be afraid and feel like you have to be awkward and hide it.
But the problem is that by the time I leave her, I have like the biggest blue balls of my life! I swear after a day with her, my package hurt, it hurt bad, it felt like I had been kicked in the testicles over and over again.
Yeah I do, not as regular as I use to though.
It's no problem. A semi-experienced girl usually understands pretty well. I always refer to my privates as having their own "head". We get a laugh out of it and it lets her know that "he has a mind of his own and will come up to say hey whenever he wants and will hide whenever he wants." lol.
