Sensual feeling

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I don't know if i can describe this properly but i've been confused with my feelings lately.there is this girl that made me feel very sensual about her. but it's different with horny. it's not like she's wearing little cloth or have a sexy body that make me horny. she's not sexy at all but yet she made me ver uncomfortable to be close to her. like when we touched or she sit close to me or even just look at me, i felt something that i can't describe. high maybe? i just wanna kiss her right then. now my question is, i don't think i like this girl or am i? is this love? because i'm in love with someone else but when it comes to sex, i wanna do it with this girl. is this normal?

Well, you are in your early 20s. This is a time when you are free to explore the sexual urges that a lot of us feel during our teenage years. You don't really have your parents watching over you making sure you are not making mistakes in life so you have the freedom to do whatever you want.I can't tell you if you really like this girl or not, but you said yourself that you don't think that you do, that all you feel for this girl is just the urge to kiss her or have sex with her. I would say that you are just feeling lust and if you are in a relationship I would strongly recommend against acting on this feeling.

It is not love. You are starting to realize that there is more to a woman and life than sex or sexual thoughts, better said. I have gone through the same deal and I often think of women very sensually now.

Well, considering that she is herself a woman, I think she knew already that there is more to women than just sex.

ah, well it still applies...

for now i decided to avoid her. i'm afraid i'll end up falling for her if i see her too much. i'm not in relationship right now.

Well, what would be wrong with falling for her?

i don't wanna get hurt. she has a boyfriend so there's no way i'm gonna get her. i have a funny experience in the past. i confessed to this one girl that i like her but nothing happen between us. and sometime later she got herself a boyfriend. the funny thing is she never talk to me in front of her boyfriend as if we never know each other. but she actually flirts with me when her bf not around.

Oh, if she has a boyfriend then do what you must to remove the temptation.