When asking a girl out to a movie, do you ask what movie she wants to go see, or choose a movie before hand and ask if she wants to see that particular one? I've been weighing out the pros an cons of each.. on one hand, if you ask her which movie she wants to see, you can't pick the wrong one, but you don't seem as confident. If you pick the movie beforehand, she may not want to see it, but you won't look like such a, for lack of a better term, pansy.Which would be the better solution?Thanks alot
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As insignificant as this may seem..
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me and my gf just get on the phone and discuss all the movies out at that time, then decide together.
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I think he means for a first date, or near the first.I think it's best to leave it fairly open, maybe suggest a few then she may take the bait and pick one.
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ahh....whoops, my bad. lol
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Generally, I find out what a girl's weakness is and then I ask her as if I'm going to go even if she's not... for example...I find out she's likes romantic comedies. It just so happens that "you've got mail" is playing at the dollar theater nearby and you know she hasn't seen it yet. I'll call her up and say, "hey, I'm gonna go see You've Got Mail at the dollar theater tomorrow night, you wanna go?"This works well with setting up dates. For example, setting up the first date with my current girlfriend went something like..."I was looking through my closet and realized I needed some new work clothes. So, I was thinking since you're good at shopping and finding clothes that match how about we play a game. We'll go to a clothing store and you pick out the clothes that you think I'd look good in and I'll model them for you."Ding, date number one easy set up. I knew she loved shopping, but hates spending money on herself because then she feels guilty. After she hastily agreed, to lengthen the date and make sure she wasn't feeling guilty by the end of the date I said, "I'll have to take you out to lunch for helping me out".That date went really well. I then wore my new outfit to go out on another date the next day. lol. This girl's weakness was Italian food. Ding, easy set up.Good luck!
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just suggest a few movies that you think she might like and then let her decide in my opinion