Ok my bf's brother's gf does not talk to me at all! I've been going out with my bf for a lil over a year now, and his brother has been going out with his gf for almost 4 years. The first time I saw her I smiled and said "heyy". She smiled back saying nothing. (well first of all I had a long distance relationship so I didnt go to school with them, I would visit every now and then.) But anyways, the second time I saw her which was at their senior prom she said nothing! she didnt say "oh i like your dress" blah blah she just walked passed me and acted like I wasnt even standing next to her and took a pic of her bf and my bf's pic. Then walked away and I was like "uhhh ok". Then when we graduated my bf's parents decided to take all of us to disney land. His mom, his brother's gf, and I stayed in the same room! still we havent talked. We sat next to eachother at the dinner table, still not a word! It was so awkward. The whole three day trip at disney land she didnt talk to my bf only to his mom, father, younger brother, and thats it. I rarely talk to my bf's brother. I dont know are they just being stuck up and unffriendly? There were times at the trip where I was about to open my mouth and ask a ques. about her, but I couldnt cause she had no eye contact with me at all it was uncomfortable for me to open up to her! Im like what the hell. And when I accidently pulled her straightning cord i kinda laughed and said "oops sry hehe, the cords look the same." and while i was saying that she was like smiling "oh no thats the wrong one". then thats it lol.I mean I never had this happened before, in my past relationships with my ex's their brother's gf's would come up to me and want to get to know me, but this one just gives me the cold shoulders. It kind of makes me mad that she would act like im not even their and shes also stuck up around my bf, even though my bf and his brother are twins they arent even that close, and sense shes been going out w/ my bf's brother for like 4 years you would think she would be more talkative around my bf and at least me too. I mean this was awhile ago but it still kinda bothers me, when I do say something she will just give me short answers or a smiling look. Am I just being paranoid or too worry about the way shes acting, i just find it weird that she doesnt talk to me or my bf.
-
Is this just plain stuck up & rude?
-
If you want to get to know her try to initiate some convosation, but it's not your responsibility. If she wants to be uptight just let her be. It's not as though you have to get to know her.
-
Yeah i tried talking to her, but it never comes into a conversation. There always short answers like "no" or just "hi" and she passes me by quickly or turns around and does something like shes so busy with something. It just gets me mad that she acts like im not even there around her. She never looked at me except once. And when we were waiting in line to go on a ride with the rest of the family I was near her and she was standing in front of me, no eye contact at all. So it makes it even harder for me to start a conversation with her. Ugh I dont know why it bothers me so much. Its just so rude! like hey im the new gf of your bf's brother talk to me, greet me do something lol. I just want to go up to her and ask her if she doesnt like me. Its not like im loud and abnoxious or just plain annoying that she has to avoid me. :confused:
-
maybe she simply doesnt like you ?You dont have to like everyone you meet in life, just because your bfs happen to be brothers doesnt make the two of you shit. I often ignore my brothers gf even thoug I see her all the time. I jsut simply dont give a shit, shes not my sister-in-law, I have no relationship wiht her. I could give a shit less.if shit developes from here Ill look into it but at this point in time I just dont care. Im not rude or ignorant to her, I simply dont go out of my way to talk to her. Maybe your in the same situation, but ont he recieving end rather then the giving.
-
Perhaps she's very very shy?
-
I wouldn't worry about it too much. Keep in mind, she's the one with the problem, not you.
-
I guess, it just feels so uncomfortable thats all. But its true that I dont need to go out of my way trying to talk to her. Im just not use to it cause like i said before in my past relationships a few of my ex's brother's gfs would talk to me about anything. I just like meeting new people, I dont have to be best friends with her but talking wouldnt hurt. oh wells.