I need serious help im 13 and i cant talk properly to girls i always talk about stuff they dont care for is there any way i can make myself more confident?
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Promblems talking to girls
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i wouldnot worry, if you are yourself....just talk as you feel...
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yea that is the problem i am acting like who i am i dont studder or get nervous just the wrong topics
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just relax...someone will find you interesting. If you want to just talk ask them how they are doing...stuff like that.
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Yes, it helps to talk about the other person, and how she is and what she likes. Ask her questions so you find out what she's interested in.
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do you think as girls as like aliens? or someone you shouldn't talk to? if so then thats normalbut you need to realise that girls are human and like a lot of things that boys like , just relax and talk to them dont worry to much
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Girls are no more different from you than guys from another town. They may have a few different things in their brains because of society and all, but they're noy out to get you and they won't beat you down if you trip up on a few words. So long as you act as a gentlemen, you're fine.
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Ok, man, one thing, never listen to someone when they say be yourself, this will only actually work if yourself=expert at talking to women, I know, I used to have this problem! PM me, I'll give you some better info, a litle secret if you will.
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Never listen to anyone who says be yourself? You gotta be kidding me Fireman. Thats absurd. There is no SECRET to talking to women, be kind, be yourself, dont stress.
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yeah fireman that is not the least bit true...maybe we misunderstood, but you should be yourself.