Well me and my gf are going to have sex this week end and i wanted to know how do you go about doing things befor sex? Like not four play but like how do you take off your clothes with out it being a wierd moment is silence?Most of the time in the movies they slam the door and start wildley making out and tearing off there clothes and get to it. Be we are really not like that we are both virgens and have no clue what we are doing.
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Is there going to be a wierd moment?
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There are bound to be awkward moments throughout. Expect them and don't be upset by them - they happen because it's new.
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I prefer kising lightly. Slowly removing each others clothes, and go from there. You dont have to be all passionate like in the movies. That is why it's movies. You can do that, but you can just go slow, and be sweet, romantic. Just do what makes you feel comfortable, go at your own speed.
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When you make out, do you strip down? If so, just take it like that, then instead of just making out, have sex.
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Also, I highly recommend you both not take it too seriously, have too much expectations and try to have fun. Really, the awkwardness is a lot easier to deal with if you're both laughing at the ridiculousness of the situation.