okay there is this kid i am in LOVE with. i wanna have sex with him but the thing is, hes not a virgin, i am. im so scared that my cherry is going to pop all over the place and then i will be like mortifyed around him. how can i make sure my cherry wont pop.. ? and (kinda disgusting i know but.. ) what can i do to pop my own cherry..
thanks so much
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Popping my cherry
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Your hymen is most likely broken by now. It normally breaks on it's own. Even if it isn't, you probably won't be able to notice and neither will he. Sometimes there is no bleeding, and if there is, it's normally a speck or two of blood. It's nothing to worry about. How old are you by the way?
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Well there is a good chance that he has had sex with a virgin so he will know what its all about. And how do you know that your hymen (thats the actual name of your "cherry") hasn't already been "popped"? Many activities such as excercising, playing sports and using tampons can cause the hymen to break.
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im 17. the only thing that has held be back from having sex is the simple fact that breaking the 'hymen' is what im scared of.
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Don't let that scare you. Let pregnancy and STD's scare you. Make sure this is what you really want. Losing your virginity is something special.
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Its perfectly normal and nothing to be afraid of. As Amanda said, the chances are that you have already broken it. I broke my girlfriend's hymen when we had sex the first time and there was just a small bit of blood that was easily cleaned, nothing bad at all.
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The guy i lost my virginity to, i was 14, he was 17. and i did bleed a little, and yeah ruined the boxers he was wearing, but he didn't care. he wanted to do it again the next day. He kept asking if i was okay, and he's sorry if it hurt. just warn the guy, and if he doesn't like it, too bad maybe he's not for you.
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im worried that mine wont be broken by the time i have sex.that would suck.