im going to be having sex for the first time and i need to know what to do how to do it. i am so scared please help
any adviceee
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Sex for the first time. HELP
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Maybe you shouldn't be having sex if you are so scared, and especially if you don't even know how to do it yet.How old are you?
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16
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Do you really feel that you are ready to have sex? Do you trust the person completely? Because you only lose your virginity once, you don't want to start off on the wrong foot.
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yeah i trust him, and i know losing it is a really big thing, but i mean i have to lose it sometime and i figure losing it now is better. im ready to do it, i want to do this. im just not sure like how to lay, does he go on top or should i and if it hurts im scared ill cry cause im not good with pain at ALL.
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The positions are your decision. you can choose to be underneath or on top but him being on top is the more traditional position. And yes it will most likely hurt, but if he knows that its your first time then he will (or atleast should) be slow and gentle. First times are rarely fantastic, but it gets better with each time you do it.
