Okay me and my g/f recently had sex. She said she was a virgin but there was no hymen, or blood, but she was in some pain afterwards, went away in about a day. She swears to me she was a virgin and i havnt really asked her too much. She was also in cheerleading, and I've heard of the hymen tearing from stretching. So I was wondering do you think she was a virgin?
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First Time question
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If she says she was a virgin then you have no reason to doubt her. The hymen can break from lots of activities, including cheerleading. Judging if someone is a virgin by whether their hymen is intact is an archaic and very imprecise method.
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If she says she was, then she probably was. The hymen can be broken from sports, tampons etc... There is not necessarily lots of blood or pain associated with first time sex.Why are you so concerned about this?
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I cant say I was really concerned it was just more of a thought that was in my head.
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The first time I had sex, I didn't bleed, so she can be telling the trueth. Not ever girl bleeds, its normal. It can break in other situations and things that just happen. I have no idea when mine broke.
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i used to be in taekwon do a longgg time ago and gymnastics. when i was like 10..would that have broken it?
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when my best guy friend came to visit i know i was going to lose it to him and i was soo nervous that it was gonna hurt and i was gonna bleed all over my white sheets. but it turns out that i was also broken so it didnt hurt and there was no blood. i also have no idea how it broke, but it was prob with a tampon cause that would explain why i never saw the blood. so ya no worries she prob was a virgin if thats such a big deal.
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i bleed. a lot.
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You will not know, until you do it. Don't worry about it. It is normal if it happens, if it doesn't, that is normal too.
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i didnt bleed or experience too much pain when i lost my virginity
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I meant "i bled a lot"