Coward or what?

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Hi,there's this kid in school that is always saying bad stuff to me, like calling me names and things like that. Couple of times I almost got into a fight with him, but he always found a way to run away. One time he couldn't and just started screaming at me that we will fight after school, and that he will be waiting for me and such things. Then when I walk out of school he always runs away to his bus and stays there until it leaves. And then the next day he's doing the same thing: calling me names and then threatening me with fights after school, but then he always runs away. I don't get why is he doing that. Any ideas?

Not sure what this topic has to do with relationships, or this website for that matter.

everyone for what ever reason wants to be a bad ass. If everyone thinks yor a bad ass noone fucks with you.Most people really dont want to fight, they just want peole to think they will and ride that rep. I on the other hand hit people, no matter what size they are, no matter what they look like. People fuck with me I hit them on the spot. I was once in a shithole on the green river doing osme fly fishing a few years ago. standing in line to pay for some beer in a lil bait shop place in a non existant town with a few houses and this shop. two assholes behind me running thier mouths talking hist and going to kick someones ass while this old man behind the counter is trying to get people rung up and out of there. These assholes went on for a good 3 minutes about kicking someones ass if they dont hurry up and they are sick of this shit so I finally had enough and told them to shut the fuck up. every god damned person in that shop moved aside and when they put ahand on my shoulder and pushed me, I decked the bastard in the throat and tore into the other one. they just wanted to be bad, running thier nouth, intimidating people because noone really wants to fight, people are afraid to be hit and 9 times out of 10 the one who is willing ot hit walks away in victory while the loud mouth bastard picks his ass up off the floor. I stayed, payed for my shit and the keeper gave me the beer for free. I had a point when I told that story, I hope you picked it up because I forgot where I was going with it after I started telling it.

Wow man you sound a lot like me grvtykllr, ya, there are a lot of people that just act up about being a bad ass. I think man what he is trying to say(despite the fact that this post does not belong here) that you should ignore this guy, it's not worth it. Though some people would just plain straight give him what he deserves and give him something to think about. I remember this one guy at my school in Germany, he was like 3 years older than me, and like a foot taller. In the bus he would always threaten people and shit and warned them not to sit in the back row. Eventually I got sick of it and punched that fat bastard in the stomach, turns out he was a big baby.

yes! Big babys ! but uhhhh Id give the little fucker what he had coing and not ignore it, he jsut does it cos he wants to be a bad ass and isnt, Id nail his ass though, put the little bitch on the ground in the fetal position.

haha, ok, sure if you wanna have to listen to his moms whining after go ahead. Don't get me wrog putting him down will definatly satisfy you, but guys like this tend to run to their parents to cry, and that gets annoying(of course you could always beat them up too, lol)

Here's an idea, put him in a lock, and threaten to break his arm if he bothers you again(make sure you do it in a big crowd). If he does bother you again break or dislocate it.

Grandpa always said, while they're busy running their mouths knock the shit out of 'em.Of course grandpa also spent more than just a few nights in the town lock-up.

I like your grandpa, sounds like he knew my grandpa and my dad !Iv spent more thena few nights behind bars myself.

Grandpa's advise always worked for me. Fortunately the worst I ever had to encounter for following it was to run bleacher for what seemed like forever.

here, maybe u can try going really close to him and ask him to say it to yur face. then punch him in the face if he does. dont be afraid to hit him. and make sure you really lean into the punch. try to aim fot the mouth or nose. is your school strict on fighting?

Not sure you should be giving this guy advice on how to start fist-fights in school.

Yeah, I don't feel like fighting in shcool and getting suspended and failing classes or even expelled, coz yeah my school is very strict on fighting. But I think I'm gonna kick that motherfucker's ass sooner or later, because now I know where he lives. So I'll go there and see what he has to say. :smirk:

Oh by the way, he's about a feet shorter than me,so do you think anybody would say something like "u should find someone your own size" and stuff like that?
thanks guys for replys

people that have it coming, have it coming no matter the size,recently my son was suspended for fighting. It was the same kid Iv gone to the school about many times since the start of the school year. hes about a foot shorter and 50 lbs lighter. My son stomped the shit out of him and I had to goto school and have many discussions to get him back in.he nailed the kid inteh lunch room, the kid dropped, cried and roilled into the fetal position, it took 4 teachers to pull my son off him. We then found out this kid does the same shit to many kids, and runs into the office to protect him. We were told by the school that if they took thier principal hat off and talked as a person... "sometimes the only thing they get to cure them is to get knocked on thier ass"Now I would not recomend going to his house and punking him out like a bitch.you need a understanding of hte law, that trip to his house means, planning, that proves previous thought and pre concieved planning, all that proves premeditated. that steps it up for assault, add tresspassing, possibly stalking because you made the trip to his house.all of this together can get into a feloney reather then a misdamener.Your far better off that when there are plenty of witnesses at school to hit him. The only problem I had ith my son doing it was not stopping when the kid was on teh ground crying, curled up.Both were suspended for fighting. the other kid for a week because of his previous record and the fact he is so well known with the counselors.That took alot of time to get done as originally they suspended him for 1 day in school suspension. My attorney calling the school telling them they were fucked as they did not uphold thier own rules. after that shit magically got fixed as the school and the district was scared shitless after beig threatened with legal action.

haha, nice, you must be so proud of your son inheriting your personality