Hi hi everyone, I hope you guys can help me with this. The opinions of other girls would be great but any guys who have had a similar experience with their girlfriends are more than welcome to join in.Well, let me start by being completely honest, I have never had an orgasm. I used to masturbate but I stopped a few months ago because whenever it started feeling really good I would feel the urge to start crying. This was really weird and now I have a boyfriend and whenever he is... ya know, I get the same feeling. I have to stop him about half way through because I don't want to cry. I feel like I am really strange, I've never heard of this happening to other girls. I told my boyfriend about it and he tells me that its normal (I don't know how he would know, I'm his first)but it is just so strange. I don't want to cry!!Has anybody else had this kind of experience? I'm sure that someone must have, and if you have, how did you get past it? I want to enjoy being intimate with my boyfriend, I love him so much and I know I am making him feel weird by stopping half way through. Please help me!
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Tears? Help!
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lol im surprised there is someone else in the world that had this "situation" i personally didint have it, but my ex did, she had never had an orgasm, not even close, and on the day that she decided to let me have sex with her, after like 2 minutes, she grabs my forearms, scratchs and screams for me to stop, i was like WTF is wroung wit u? and she gets all worried and it took her like 2 minutes to respond, she had said that she never felt this feeling before, that it was like whenever i went in and out, that i pressed a button in her pussy that sent a wave of pleasure threw her body, then she told me that after a couple of the waves, they were getting stronger and they were making her body tingle/feel great and then she said that if i would kept going, within the minute she would of been crying.she couldn't explain why she felt like crying, she had said that it was feeling great and that she wanted me to keep going but she didint want me to make her cry, i told her that it was ok if she cryed because i understood her problem (lol at the time not really i just wanted to see her reaction) and that i really wanted to try to help her get over this, i told her id go slow and get back into the old momentum, well after 3-4 minutes of me fucking her, she pleaded for me not to stop, even if she screams for me to stop... lol i told her , your wish is my command...well after another 5 minutes, i could see her eyes watering, and then she screamed, not for me to stop, but because she had came, her orgasm was the strongest ive ever felt from a girl, her pussy contracted so tight i thought my dick would lose circulation. like 6-7 tears came out her eyes, but after about the 6th or 7th orgasm she didint cry any more, idk the reason that she cryed, all i know is that it felt like heaven being inside her while she was crying.. lmao i wish i knew wtf that was about. hell maybe you will be the same way, if your ever in southern california, and need someone to take away your tears. holla at meh :-) lol im jp.so what i suggest, is either letting him make you cum a few times, till u learn to control it, or make yourself cum, (in the bathroom or shower or bedroom idk wherever ur mind takes u) and even after you cum, push yourself, either dont stop hittin yo g spot or keep rubbin that clit, do whateva u gotta do to keep yoself stimulated...holla at meh and let meh know your progress. oh and by the way, :-D welcome to the boards
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Its my understanding (I'm a male virgin so I dont know from experience) that the feeling you're talking about is the tension of impending orgasm. I've had female friends tell me that they have hesitated because they were afraid to just go with the flow. I guess a female orgasm is way more intense than the male orgasm.
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damn if so i feel bad for the girls i come across lol forgive the bragging there i just find that strange, i coulda sworn they were at least semi equal. lol well have a fun sex life :-) i know i am
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Thank you for the very interesting story. I'm gonna try just letting whatever happens happen. It just feels so... wrong. But thank you for the help, its good to know I'm not the only person.And btw, who rated me a 1?? What did I do??
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I know what yo ur going through, ducky. I hav e the same affliction, but I don't hesitate. It always takes me forever to orgasm too, and tears always escape, but hell if it isn't worth it!
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Ha I had the same problem honestly. I'm a virgin. But shit if I was'nt atleast 16 I would probaly have a sex life but 14 is young for me. It used to happen when I masturbated for some odd reason which I'm not able to awnser. I usually got the urge to cry. I think because maybe it was too powerful or something heh. But after a while it did'nt really bother me anymore and I did'nt feel like crying.Ounce you get through it after a while it won't be so bad.
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Thank you very much, both of you. I'm so happy that I'm not the only one. I'm gonna work at it, I'll be staying the night at my bf's house in about 2 weeks, his parents are going away, so we should get some good practice in!