my boyfriend of seven months broke up with me because he decided he was straight because it would be easier to be straight, because society treats straight people better. So he changed his phone number, and will not talk to me at all. He completely dropped me, and this all came out of nowhere. Yeah, we had little fights here and there, but nothing serious? Why would he do this? He never gave any notion he was straight, or at least close to it...I'm just very confused. The funny thing is, he called me on Sunday and wanted to talk about stuff like breaking up and I was worried, then on Monday he came to see me at work and told me he wanted to be with me. He made a mistake about thinking about breaking up, and looked in my eyes and told me he loved me. The next day, he wanted nothing to do with me, and I have not heard from him since then (today is Saturday)
Horrible break up...need help
I am sorry for your situation.Sounds like he is confused. It is going to suck, but you are going to have to let him figure out stuff in his head. And just wait to see if he comes back to you.I am sorry, really am. He is probably hurting too. He just isn't sure what he wants, it sounds like it. Maybe you should try to get ahold of him or maybe it would be better if you didn't. Never know. You know him better than we do. Maybe write him a letter or something.Good luck.
woah he sounds like hes really finding being true to himself hard, never mind true to anyone else, namely you. Back off and let him work through things, more for your sake than his. It will be hard for you both, but he can't keep saying one thing then another its not fair on you. You want him back when he is sure hes come to terms with everything.