I have a girl that i am sexually active with. We've gone up to oral and she really wants to lose her virginty. But since i don't have a real relationship with her i dont' think its right, but i will have anal with her since its still sex but not losing my virginity. She seems to be all up for it. But i don't have any friends i can talk to it about, and im not sure myself. I have a few questions. Should i wear a condom? What type of lube should i get, i'd prefer if there was some around the house instead of having to buy lube from a store, or spit if its possible for the first time? How long should i finger her anally before inserting it. and lastly, how do i bring up that she needs to be clean before she goes into it?
Well you should always use a condom with anal sex in a situation like this, just to protect against STDs.
We dont know your age, but if you insert into her butt, then you in a sense will lose your virginity. What if she doesnt like it? You cant just pull out and put it in her vagina without using another condem. Use plenty of lube like Astro Glide. Never use Vasiline with condems, it will destroy it.