My girlfriend and I have been trying to have anal sex...We are having a bit of a problem...I can't get my dick in her. I don't think that I am very big..I think i am quite small as compared to most others. We have used lubrication and it still doesn't work..Any ideas on what I am doing wrong?
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Anal sex..
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well is it, she is not opening up enough or is it, it hurts too much?
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i don't think it really hurts her from what we've talked about it. It hurts me when i am trying to get it in and it tries to bend...
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hmmmmore lube
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Try using a finger first with lube, then 2.
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well could be not enough lube,not relaxed enough (on her part) so ya ninja had the right idea just use as my fingers as are about the size of your penis to kinda loosen her up a bit make her more comfortable
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What position are you guys in when trying this? I enjoy doing it doggie style or having her sit on it. She has more control on the speed of entry and you can play with and stimulate everything else while she's doing this... Let us know if this works...
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I would definitely suggest using a finger (with lube) first to get her used to the feeling. She has to relax her muscles as well. I find that I have a hard time doing this, so if my boyfriend and I want to have anal sex I drink a little alcohol beforehand to loosen up and so that I don't feel any pain there may be very much. I would only recommend this is you're over the legal drinking age of course.
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Have her use a vibrator on her clit while you stick your dick in her ass, make sure it is lubed well too.
