Anal sex question - for the women

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just wondering if this happens to any other women - after my b/f and i have anal sex (and this has happened with previous partners) i get the runs. its almost like i ate something bad or out of the ordinary but i know i haven't. could it be something to do with the lube on the rubbers we use? or just the deed? in the past it has happened even without a condom (ex husband) just wondering if other women have this after effect ?

just basically depends on your boyfirend/husband if hes a thinner man (girth below 5 inchs) he mite be basically mashing and dividing your shit, i know personally since im more of a round fat lengthyt kinda guy my penis just pushes it into a ball sorta, kinda feel bad for her she tells me the ball hurts almost as much as my dick :-\ sry babe lol,what i suggest is have anal sex without a condom (get him tested) and allow him to penetrate u from behind without a condom, dont be afraid to let him cum in your ass, greatest feeling in the world

umm adding on from that post... make sure you are on the pill or something before having anal sex without a condom.. the semen can enter the vagina when it comes out

Also, no condom can allow the transmission of STDs as well as potential urinary track infection for the guy if bits of feces enter the penis. Also, never go from the anus straigth to the vagina for health reasons. It should be common sense but since we've got people advocating anal sex without condom without any health tips, it's apparently not.

without a condom isn't an option for me right now - while i dont think he has anything and i'm 99.9% sure i dont - pregnancy would be a huge concern for both of us as we are both coming out of bad marriages - he has a child - and while i want kids - i dont want them right now.

Wise move.

ty - now back to the question.....

First off, you should have a clean colon before engaging in anal sex. Simply using the restroom at least a few hours beforehand should be sufficient.Second, anal sex should not be painful. Foreplay needs to be used for anus as well. When the anus can be loosened enough for comfortable penetration, sufficient lube should be used (you don't need to be dripping with lube, but enough so that the person receiving is comfortable).As far as irregular bowel movements, I don't know what to tell you. I am male, but either way it has never happened to me. It seems things should improve if you will start to make sure your colon is empty before you have anal sex.

I've never recieved anal but it sounds like it temporarily stretches the sphincter muscles. That combined with having any feces mashed together creates the effect of having an enema. Thats what it sounds like to me.

honestly, have you seen any of his posts that offer advice you would follow?besides, all most all of his posts are teh same thing over and over, I think I knocked up my girl, he doesnt learn from his mistakes, and has no idea how it all works or he would of figured out how to keep from getting her pregnant before now. I normally dismiss his posts and dont bother reading them anymore.

What's all of this rubbish about 'dividing up' feaces (if you're thin) or compacting it (if you're thick). TBH I think that's a load of bollocks.The large intestine is responsible for extracting liquids from our waste product. So if your feaces is runny it means that your large intestinea) is not doing it's job properly; orb) your feaces doesn't have enough time in the large intestine for it to extract these liquids.My guess is that the anal intercourse is stimulating to pass out your feaces before the LI has had enough time to extract everything that it should. Either that or it's disrupting the LI's ability to take out the liquids.I can't be sure, though I can be sure that thinner penises and thicker penises do not play a role in compacting or liquifying your feaces!!!What next?

Well ive did anal one time and that happent to me i didnt really like it that much and you can really mess up your system by doin that so my health teacher said.

thanks for the imput - but that still doesn't sound right. the only time this happens to me is after anal sex - and its usually the day after and thats it. then i'm back to normal. if it was a problem with the large intestine - i would think it would happen more often than that. the only thing that was out of the 'ordinary' was having him up there.

In reply to: the only time this happens to me is after anal sex - and its usually the day after and thats it Which is my whole point. I'm not saying that you have a medical problem with your large intestine. I'm saying that the anal sex is possibly stimulating it so that you pass your stools before your body is ready. Or it's distracting your normal bodily functions from doing their job.The reason I mentioned the LI was to explain why feaces may be runny or hard - it's not to do with compaction or separation by penises!