Women + Porn

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I'm a guy, and virtually every guy I know I can either discuss at great length various pornographic websites and actors and such, or at least they have given up porn but nevertheless had their time with hardcore porn.
My 10th grade history tacher last year told me one of his friends' marriages was ruined by hardcore pornography and ended in divorce, although he and probably most people he knows are fundamentalist Christians (to say the least).
Anyway, the question I have that I have never asked any girl I know is what they think about porn and a relationship, like if they could tolerate being with a man who looked at porn [just straight-up guy bangs girl porn, not fetishes or BDSM or gay].

I dont have any problem with it. As long as the guy doesn't have some screwed up expectations about what sex should be like based on porn.

I can understand why it would make a girl uncomfortable. if I'm ever with a girl who looks at porn I hope she's good at keeping secrests too.

I would almost lay a bet that your teachers buddy got divorced not because he looked at porn, but because he let it take over and was spending time and money on it, time that he should of spent atleast some of with is wife. I never ignore my girl to look at porn, but we do sometimes look at it together. when it becomes an overbearing blacnket rather then an occasional distraction, then its become a problem, Id also bet they tried and argued and discussed it many times before he couldnt stop or slow down and she gave up oin him wanting to be treated like a person of worth reathen then someone to watch the kids and do the dished while her man wacked it on the computer.

Aye! The guy should get help maybe.

good point. I guess any habit's good as long as you've got control over it, not the other way around. wish i could say as much for me spankin the monkey.

Its free on the web, if you spend money on it, or if it takes over your life or if it involves child porn, then its a problem.

I've watched porn with my girlfriend a few times.

ha ha!i knew id writen bout this sum where on this site, just found it"i no chicks who flip if they catch their bf with porn cuz, to them, this means that their bfs arnt into them and need 2 look at other chicks 2 get off (!?!?! girls can b so dumb sumtimes)but personally, i have no huge problems with it. i no my bf watches it, and thats cool with me, ill watch sum with him if i wanna. just cuz hes lookin at them, dosnt mean he loves me anyless or dosnt find me sexy. if it truns him on, he can go 4 it. its not like hes cheating on me.i do how eva have afue issues with porn: i dont think its good 2 grow up with unrealistic portrails of women, i think alot of it is very negitive towards women and teaches guys 2 treat them like shit, and i think it kinda make sum unrealistic standerds for women 2 live up 2.as long as its not an addiction or obsesion and ur awear thats its fantacy and not realistic, ive got no problems with guys liking it "hope that helps

personally for me I would feel uncomfortable if my guy watched porn. I'd think he was sick in the head or something. I mean, all that porn watching time can be spent going to the movies, hanging out, traveling, etc. I just always thought porn wasn't necessary when in a relationship since that's enough action right there lol.