My situation, am I safe now?

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Heres what has happened in the past month with me and my girlfriend:

A week after her period, I cleaned some sperm off of myself with a towel, then she used it unknowingly on herself to clean her vagina.

Next week we had unprotected sex (i know bad idea) but i wasn't too worried because it was only for literally 30 seconds.

Then two weeks later, when her period was due (the 3-5) it didn't come, and we started to worry.

On the 6th (after she was at least a day late at the minimum) we had been doin it for a while, and the condom broke. It was a spermicidal/lubricated condom, but it had gotten dry since we were in a vehical.

I had her take two tests in the past week, and they were both negative, AND she just started her period about 20minutes ago. Am I safe now that she started and those tests were negative? Or should I still be worried about the broken condom because it was after she was late and we wouldn't know until IF she misses her next period?

If she has started her period, then yes, its pretty safe to say that you dodged the bullet.

yup but next time dont stand 2 inches in front of it......

Girlfriend should use BIRTH CONTROL!!

ya but it depends on how old she is,if shes around like 13 or something i think her parents wouldnt be to quick to basically give their daughter a free pass for sex well a somewhat free pass its not 100% effective

Parents would be stupid to not let thier daughter take birth control. Would they rather have her pregnant? I'm a parent of 2 daughters, the oldest is 14 and on birth control and as soon as the younger one shows any interest in actual sex with guys, she to will be on it. Birth control is more effective than broken condems and sperm filled towls.

well ya they would im just saying they might be totally stupid and try to keep her away from him which could drive her to sneak out or away and go have mad unprotected sex with him, hell i had a girlfriend at 5-10 (no no idea of what sex even was) and she moved but apparently moved back 3 or 4 years after,i called and they said they didnt want their daughter talking to teenage boys

Even though the condom broke only three days before she started her period (was already late) I should be fine? I was thinking that maybe it wouldn't stop that period from coming because it was so close to when it started?

i think you should be fine but ya discuss with her about birth control if she doesnt want to tell her your not going to have sex anymore because its not just your responsibility

there are two types of girls under 18, that need birth control, those with hard menstrual cycles that need their hormones regulated and sluts that f**k anything that walks by

thats not right sure there are sluts but not all of them

just fyi - not every woman can use a hormonal birth control. there are dangerous side effects - granted not for all but for some. example - i can't take it b/c i've had a blood clot - there fore am prone to them. birth control can cause them and they can be fatal - so a doc will not write me a Rx for the pill. there are other things she can do if she is of age or her parents will take her to the gyno - she can ask about an IUD or a diaphram - granted they aren't 100% but nothing is.

well i kinda meant all around female birth control i know theres more than the pill