When my boyfriend and i are messing around and he stimulates my clit, it hurts really bad. It seems like it's way too sensitive for that, and it's really intense. Is this normal? and are there any ways to prevent that feeling? Thanks.
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It may be possible that he is putting to much pressure on your clitoris. Ask him to be more gentle with it in future, to roll it a bit instead of really rubbing.
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if ur not used to this than it can b really sensitive. try asking him 2 stimulate it through ur panties 2 start off with as it wont b so intense and work u way up when u get used 2 it. etha that, or try more lube or sumthing so theres not as much friction.just let him no its extreamly sensitive and to take care and b gentel
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defantley use lube to take away some of the friction, i think your bf just need to be more sensitive and make sure you really turned on before he goes to your clit. i think some guys just go straight to the clit before exploring other parts of your body
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I get like that.. I find it better to be stimulated next to my clit, kinda rubbing it through the skin rather than directly on. Can you do it by yourself okay?
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I agree with the other posts, but you might also want to try having him rub your clit through your clitoral hood. It would still feel good but not be so intense that it's painful, then if want to and you're aroused enough you can go with direct stimulation.
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Thanks for all of the ideas. I can sometimes get off from stimulating my clit, but i've always found it very hard. I'm usually really turned on before he goes down, but i'll let him know. Thanks again.