Relationship Dilema!

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Ok well. i've only had 1 girlfriend so far i stopped after one cause all of the pain, risk etc. I had a girlfriend in grade 6 who i adored with all my heart, we've had fun and such, I never did get to kiss her though that may have been a problem which we broke up for. Anyway after we broke we still stayed realyl good friends but in grade 8 we did get in a huge fight then we both went to different high school and now i moved to a diffrent city. We have not stayed in touch for like 1 year but now I talked to her again not long ago. Since im going back to my old city to visit some of my old friend next week end, i dont know if i should visit her, i think she said she wanted us to hang out. My question is if i go back would it bring back horrible memories and feelings? would i fall in love with her? or just ruin our friendship? Please help!, thanks guys.

Thank You Bigger Brother Of Rock and Roll!I think i started to love her again. Actually love! people said we will end up marrying or dating for a long long time! never happend. But after we broke up i had diffrent view on girls now and dont feel like dating i like 2 beautiful girls at my school but she further away and i still want her! I dont her for sex or such, i want her as a life partner, a soulmate, a best friend!

So, what should I do? Visit her or just you know..chat.

Visit her, what have you got to lose? Even if things dont't work out, you can't say you didn't try.

What do i have to lose!? well, i could lose my friendship with her and that would be past oblivion! it was not enough after i got into highschool i havent heard or seen her for 2 and a halgf years...and counting

But a relationship that wouldn't survive a visit would be no relationship at all.

I understand. what do you think i should do Ineligible.

I think you should visit her. Who knows what might happen - you may get closer, or you may find you have drifted apart - but if you don't do it you'll always wonder.

I'm afraid that we are soo much out of each other that we cant speak to eachother, this has been bothering me for soo long too 3 days seems ages!

I rekcon it will be alright when you see her, just dont try and force what may not be there.Good luck buddy!

It is very awkward after we broke up, i never acted the same around her. She will be back from Chicaco soon so il try to talk to her online; but what do i say!?

She came on and i have absolutl no clue what to do...i feel so screwed right now.