Nasty freaky deaky adults, awkward

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Ok talking about sex is one thing. Talking to your sister is one thing. Getting advice from your sister about sex is another thing. Hearing your sister talk about how wonderful sex is with her Australian fiance- GOODNESS GRACIOUS! NO! NOOOO! I will listen to a person tell me about there boyfriend. I will listen to my friends KEYWORD friends, tell me about their "sex lives" but there is no way in this God-gived world I will ever ever everrrr accept hearing about my sister having sex. Are you kidding? Ok, I'm sorry. I really am. I love my sister. I love my soon to be brother in law. They're both great. But you know, I don't want to hear about their personalnessenssness.

No, my sister hasn't told me upfront about it, she's not like that. But she's preparing for her wedding and my cousins and I have been helping her and then when they ask her about him she's all like "oh he's so wonderful. he's so perfect. and oh my goodness in bed he's incredible." blah blah. AND THEN they ask about her sex life there we go again. my cousins are so stupid asking her if the stereotype is true and what not and she goes "oh no not at all it's huge and his hands are" k we're done. NASTINESS! And her nasty little 23 year old hormones go crazy. GET A ROOM YA NASTY LITTLE GIRL!

I'm sorry. I've had enough though. He came back from Italy, Monday, and since he's been back they're sex drive is like WOW! My goodness gracious! They'll be popping out babies any second. I know they love each other that's great. But everytime she's with him she's moaning or something and he's whispering in her ear and they're all over each other. And the tongue kissing, and the grabbing and the "oh god"s EW MAN! EWWWWWWWWWWW! I don't want to hear that. From my sister? Nasty nasty.

Last night, we went to dinner with her, me, him, his brothers, my brothers, his sister, and our cousins. They were both flirting the entire night. Before we even brought them they're little congratulations cake, NO before they finished they're meal they excused themselves to "use the bathroom". Use the bathroom? That's the lamest excuse I have ever heard in my life. His sister asked what are they doing and my brother says "I don't want to know". None of us want to know! Is every young couple this way? My sister is like my best friend but wow. I don't want her acting this way around me. I feel like I'm wathing sex and the city. Literally! I don't mind the lovey doveyness. Honestly I don't. I'm really happy for them and I think it's really romantic but, I don't want to deal with this. It's really really disturbing. And some of you might think I'm being selfish but put yourself in my shoes. You know me. I'm not into that yet. So what do I do?

Talk to her?Tell her that they need to control themselves(in a nicer way,obviouly)that seriouly is nasty

yeah but I don't want her to uin anything for her. make it seem like I'm raining down on her parade.

talk to your parents and let them rain on her parade

ooh noooo nooo nooo big no no

How about you just let your sister have her fun? Eventually they will get over this phase of being all over each other but until it does it isn't your place to stop them. They are not harming you and there is nothing that they could be saying that is worse than what you may read here on this site, a site that you choose to visit.

you don't understand. I don't care if they do whatever they do, though the body whip cream is WOAH! I'm happy for them. HOWEVER, I honest to God don't want to hear my sister having an orgasm every 5 seconds. It's like live porn. They're out of control. Go do your business but in a room.

can I have a third option? lol

well I just don't want to think about it period. It was fun and cute when she well mostly him but they'd joke around about having little caramel children lol (they're term for biracial, I know, crazy). I'm honestly glad that they're having so much "fun" but you know, too much sex for one day. We have tv for that.

It's not your life...you really can't do anything about it. Don't be so hung up on it. They're adults and soon to be newlyweds.

Well they are soon to be newly weds sweetie, so be happy for them. I, myself, would be happy to know that my sister has a healthy sex life with her soon to be hubby, although I do admit I wouldn't want to hear them while they're in the mist of doing the 'nasty'! BUT they are adults, and they're in love, so let them have their fun.

Yeah, I'm always really happy when i see my brothers showing they love their wives. it just makes me feel happy to know they're happy, and gives me confidence that i'll be that happy with someone one day. But they don't go quite as far as you were describing, but they do kiss and hug and stuff and it makes me smile.

I agree with Katie on this. It is something that she may talk about and you cannot really tell her to stop saying anything, just tell her to omit some details.

Well it's cool they're having a good sex-life and you can tell it's a sexually explosive relationship, but C'MON! No one wants to hear this stuff. Just tell your sister to keep those things to herself and do that stuff when you are not around. If you don't want to watch it then you don't have to.

hmmm I can understand what you are saying, but in all honesty, I don't think it would bother me that much. I'm sure they will both grow out of it, or get bored of eachother a lil bit eventually don't sweat the small stuff honey!

wow you guys seriously don't get it. I'm Abi! I'm that 15 year old Christian girl that lives down the block and the only "sexual" thing that girl has done is kiss a guy. You honestly don't get it. It's ONE thing to read it but ANOTHER to see it and hear it. You guys are adults so you don't know. I however am not into that and have never dealt with it. Kiwi knows where I'm coming from. I said thousands of times I'm happy for them but I HONEST TO GOD do not want to hear their nastyness.

Well u really dont have much of a choice. Sit there and hear/see it, or get up and leave. Talking to her about it may help, but its not like they will stop acting like a young couple in love simply because it grosses you out.

I give up because obviously it's not getting through. Thanks anyway..

It's not that we don't understand honey, it's just there really isn't anything you can do about it. Abi, I'm not that much older than you, and believe me when I say I know exactly what you're going through... I have three older siblings (and two are already married) so I've seen and heard things that go on with their spouces (even when I was your age) I never want to see and/or hear again! But there really isn't much you can do; they're young and in love and it'll be this way for a while until the 'newn-ess' of it all wears off. The only thing I can suggest is asking your sister in private to 'tone' it down a bit or to at least give you a little warning before they start doing tha' wild thang so you can get outta their way!

yeah their little sneak attacks give quite the shocker lol I'll try thanks katie