I hate my brother
It's only just hit me today, but I actually totally hate my brother.
He's 16 and totally different to me.
He tries his hardest to get on my nerves and it works. He's somewhat of a thug, and in most ways a total mirror to me.
He has been annoying me especially badly recently, and now that mother has gone on holiday, he has taken it upon himself to try and push me around.
I don't know what to do though. I broke down crying earlier because it had hit me that I despise my own brother.
is he older than you?
No, I'm 20
im an only child ;x but wut i would do is just tell him to "f*** off" or just tell him to stop with a really serious look at your face, this works with my friends when they bother me :P
There's nothing wrong with disliking your brother - I don't like mine. Like you and your brother, we just are too different and not well suited. As well (and it could be the same for yours), coming second he had the difficulty of following me, which I think caused him some jealousy and bitterness.We're not obliged to like people we dislike, just to try to get along with them as best we can. Try to be as understanding to him as is possible.
that's when you gotta kick em in the throat...tell who's boss
Here's the problem.First of all he's so stubborn. He wont listen to anything I say to him. If I try to tell him to shut up, he'll get hostile with me, and start getting physically violent. I don't want to have to resort to fighting him, it's happened before, and he wont give up till he's dead.I'm stuck here because nothing seems to work, but I'm tired of having to put up with all this crap he's dealing out.
Telling people to do things is often not very effective, because people don't like to be oredered about. If you're 16 and it's your 20 year old brother telling you, you particularly don't want to take orders from him and you'll probably refuse on principle.You've got to look at it from his perspective. You've got to give him a way of doing it that won't lose him face.
Yes I understand that, but when it's something either trivial or really important, then he is the worst.For example, a year ago I built him a computer and GAVE it to him free of charge. Last night I was rebuilding mine, and I needed to use "his" for about 2 minutes, but he kicked up such a fuss, so much so that he threatened to call the police if i didn't get off the computer?And then a shouting war ensued. When i gave up, he actually demanded that I continue arguing with him.He's annoyed me so much. I just want him out of my life.
In reply to: im an only child ;x but wut i would do is just tell him to "f*** off" or just tell him to stop with a really serious look at your face, this works with my friends when they bother me Ryan don't have to say f**k off lol I can tell by the look on his face. lol
sibling love...it's part of growing up and life
If he is hitting you, you need to call the police.
and if you hit him ( atleast in US ) your hitting a minor and he could pull the police card and screw you over
No fighting has broken out yet.Today he woke me up by standing outside my bedroom door playing loud music.I don't get what his problem is
I wonder if he's jealous of you, and what you have that he doesn't.
That's no reason for him to act the way he does though.
most of you probably wouldn't approve but i'd say do something that will embarrass him in front of his friends. you gotta do somethin that will get him made fun of fer a while....that'll teach him who's boss or wrestle him
I never ever see him with his friends though. We keep our social life very separate.
the younger generation today!! no respect :frowning: its really not just your brother... i mean lots of people dont get on with their siblings but he is not you... theres no reason really that you have to like him. hes at that rebelious annoying age...when i was at highschool the group around 3-4 years younger was always the most annoying cocky group of gits...theres not much u can do about it...just try not to rise to him..keep out of his way if u can!
I was always confused with why we were always told we have to love our brothers. Sometimes our brothers can just be total jackasses so why like them? Your brother and you may get close as you both grow older, maybe not. I would say just let him live his own life and you live your. Try not to interact that much to cause more tension between you altough I know thats hard. When i was in middle school my brother and I got alot closer after the hating eachother when we were younger. Now that i'm a Junior in high school and he just completely his junior year in college I know that the only reason my brother and I were close in my middle school years because I drank with him. I haven't had a sip of alcohol since he went to college and I see that basically hes just becoming a drunk. He is also look up at as the golden child to my parents even after he got arrested for giving alcohol to minors and totalling his car. While i do absolutly nothing wrong and I get look down at. Maybe its a bit jealously in my case, but I dont feel I have any obligation to like him and neither do u.
