mk, i have a girlfriend, were really close we know alot about eachother but shes only madeout and ive fingered multiple girls. shes sexually awkward if you try to do anything past making out so i was wondering what should i do if i want to make it more comfortable for her to do that stuff with me.and any tips on what most girls like their bf to do would be super duper.
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Delicate situation
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There's nothing you can really do. She has to grow comfortable and ready to go beyond making out. Have you talked about it with her?
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sortof. last time i tryed to we broke up
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D'oh! Don't you think that's a hint that she's not ready to go that far?
You should talk to her and see how she feels exactly. But if she doesn't want to do that stuff, then drop it. If you keep pushing her, she's going to leave you again.
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Regardless of our junior Klansman's age isn't a relationship a two way street. If this girl isn't ready to give him what he needs in a relationship shouldn't he be able to move on to someone that fulfills all his needs. Why should it be you just, stay with her till she's ready. If the relationship isn't important enough for her to move [the relationship] to a more sexual nature, beyond just making out, then why should he wait around on her?Wouldn't withholding progression of sexual intimacy, and thereby controlling the relationship, be just as detrimental as forcing sexual intimacy on the relationship? Shouldn't the goal of any relationship be to provide for what the other needs. Doesn't anything short of that doom the relationship. If someone is going to withhold or insist, at that point don't you cut your losses and go seek what you need in another, be that sex, dependability, trust, emotional connection... what have you.Can ya tell I'm trying real hard for an argument here... this place needs a shot of somehtin'. _________________________________________________________________To the OP you can't do shit till she's ready. If you want more than she is willing to give your gonna have to decide just how important she is to you relative to your needs.
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Originally Posted By: OldFolks
Can ya tell I'm trying real hard for an argument here... this place needs a shot of somehtin'. :wink:
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You sound like my wife...
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I guess the question is:
Which do you "need" more -- companionship, or sex?
Ultimately, which one is more important to you? Some people don't give a rat's ass about companionship so they rate sex as the highest priority. Personally, I think companionship rates higher (because companionship is a privilege, while an orgasm is something I can give to myself).
Every person has different priorities.
Either way, you owe to her to be honest. Figure out what you REALLY value most, then tell her.
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Currently my lovely bride has a kidney infection, it didnt respond to treatment and got worse and its cost us 3 days inthe hospital, and between the flu before that and then this and what not its been over 3 weeks since we had any sex because it hurts her. According to teh doctors that are treating her now and finally making progress shes not allowed ot have any till her current script of cypro runs out. THat means I wont be getting any till monday atleast.I can replace the sex with the mistress I keep attached to my right wrist, I cant replace the companionship she offers me, or the love she shows me.
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Cipro is rough. I hope she feels better soon.
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the cypro is making her sick, but it is working on the kidney infection, shes 100 times better than she was, and as a bonus if she had anthrax shs clean there too!
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giggle Anthrax always makes me think of the band Anthrax.
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At a no longer in existence club called the speedway I got caught in a mosh to anthrax, live, and I am the law, Im the man, and many other songs they did that night, I lost alot of blood, and chipped a tooth, it was one of my fondest memories, a fucking great time, drunk and violent seems to just go along with anthrax. your too young, you missed some of the best times from the 80s