Short version.....I bumped into a girl i like at a party months ago. She says she likes me. Great. She has a BF. Crap. She is getting bored with him because they have been going out for over a year. Woo. She still hasn't dumped him and gone out with me yet, we speak regularly online, but i want to go out with her.We are both doing our A levels at the moment and she says she doesn't want to rock the boat untill they are over. Does anyone think thay she could be stringing me along because she likes the idea of a guy after her. I have no idea. I hope not, and i wouldn't have thought so. But if she isn't then WHY THE FCUK ISN'T SHE GOING OUT WITH ME NOW. I know time will tell but i want opinions.(i realize i could just ask she but she would say she isn't, i don't know whether that could be a porkie)ThanksMr. Nuts
Why's it always me?!
She genuinely may not want to change things until A-levels are over - they are important, changing bf would be disruptive - it's reasonable. It can't be too long to wait until they are over. If she stills hangs on to him after that, forget about her.I'd be concerned, though, about a girl who dumps her bf because "she is getting bored with him because they have been going out for over a year". Will the same thing happen to you after a year?
I know A-levels are a reasonable reason, that’s why I have no problem with it. But it is also a good excuse. I just don't want to find out she is stringing me along. Our A-level examinations will be finished in about 2 weeks, I will have to see thenI said it was the short version. There is a bit more to it than she is getting bored. But that was one of the reasons, she also has been having not the best of times with him. Any more opinions would be greatMr. Nuts