Ok, im in a long distance relationship so i usually talk with my girlfriend over msn, alot of the time she will have pictures of other dudes she knows has her display pic sometimes half naked and then go "hes sexy" and stuff like that, now not only does it piss me off its also nasty to look at.Is what shes doing wrong?
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Is this wrong?
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Nah, don't take it personal. Most of the time, people in those pics are models. So unless you think she has a real shot at the models, don't worry about it. Just ask her not to put them up. I know most guys hope they're all the man their women need, but there's nothing wrong with just looking. So long as she doesn't touch. Once she touches, then she's crossed the line.
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yea i dont really mind when its like someone thats a model or something but sometimes its actually people she knows like guys she hangs round with.
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Actually, yes i think she is wrong for doin that, what the point of flaunting other men - even worse that she hangs out with - in your face. She wouldn't like it if you put up pics of sexy girls when you were talking to her, i can guarantee that!
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guys she knows, yes. Legends of the fall Brad Pitt, not so much.
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Its kind of a love hate relationship somedays shes awesome and some i just really cant stand her, i always tell her how i dont see the point in fancying other girls when im going out with someone but she seems to think its ok to fancy other guys.It bothers me because sometimes i dont know if i can trust her cause she already likes looking at other guys and shes a flirt so it makes me think she might flirt with them too.I doubt she thinks shes doing something wrong either.What should i do?
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Ok, my English to American to Bad American dictionary might be outdated, but Fancy means to be attracted to/like, yeah? Well if she thinks it's ok to be attracted to other guys, and flirt with them, then you might have a cause for concern. If i were you, I'd call her out on it. Put that stuff in check. If she doesn't THINK she's doing anything wrong, but it obviously bothers you, then A: Nip it in the bud or B: might have to cut ur losses with this one. People don't change lightly. And you simply saying it bothers you might not be enough to send that idea home.
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Ok i need a bit of background.Were you and she together in real life, or is it just an online relationship?
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Its real life, we have been going out for a year and a half now.
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anything else i could do?