so i finally found a boyfriend who i love and who loves me back, and for once in my life im truely happy with the relationship. but lately, my friends have completely stopped calling me and asking me to hangout. im with my bf alot, but we've made it clear to our friends that we dont need to just be alone with eachother all the time. i just dont understand why my friends are doing this...i call them and try to hangout, but every1 seems to be "too busy" to return my phone calls or to stay on the phone. why should I always be the one to call them?? the phone works both ways... i dont understand, why wouldnt they still wanna hangout? what can i do to make it better??
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Friends...
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Couples naturally look to each other first, and singles often find the change hard to deal with, especially if they're not experienced with couples. I don't know how old you and your friends are - if they are young they may get better with couples as they get older and more experienced.
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we're 19 yrs old
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perhaps your friends think that you only want to spend time with your bf and not them, why dont u explain to them that u still wanna hang out. mabye just go out with your friends one night without yr boyfriend and show them that u dont have to be around him all the time, if that's what they think. friends often think bcos one of their friends has a bf that they dont want to hang out socially with them anymore, they jsut want to be around each other and this obviously isnt true in yr case. explain this to them the next time you see them and see how that goes.chin up! xXxsamxXx
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okay ill try that, thanks for the advice!!! :grin:
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no problem dear, hope it works let me know!