Sex loss

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this is aquward i love my husband and think hi is totaly hot. also he is very well indowed. you may be thinking what the problem well here it is I dont raly like sex it hurts at times and just not in the mood and when things do get hot and hevy i blank out complty to were i'm not responsive or maby to many romance novels please give some advise.we had no problems when we frist met,

As Sexpot said, if you are taking any type of prescriptions meds you might want to read and see if there is any side effects that might lower your libido.Also as a relation gets older and you get more comfortable with a person usually the sex starts to slow down. For example, my partner and I have been together for over a year now and we used to have sex everyday sometimes a few times a day and now we might have sex 2-4 times a week. It's a natural course of a long term relationship.

no i'm alergic to birth controal its the estregen in it and normal stress.

he wants sex its me that dont he luky if it once a month thats the problem. :frowning:

Do you have kids, work stress? Depression is a contributer to loss of sex drive in most people, do you think you are depressed? Just cos your man is hot and well endowed doesn't mean you should automatically want it everytime he does, thats not how it works.

You say it hurts sometimes and are often not in the mood. There can be many issues at hand. Stress, depression and even physical issues. You say you are allegic to the estrogen in birth control pills. Perhaps you have a hormonal imbalance. To be fair, you really need to see your doctor/ob-gyn and tell him what you are telling us. But you need to put everything out on the table so that he/she can evaluate everything and be able to move forward. Good luck.

I would only add to that that when you see the doc you tend to forget shit, leave stuff out, shit like that.
She already started writing it out, keep writing, get every thought on it on paper so when you see the doc, you go ti all there.
I have a diabetic son, we see the clinic every 3 months, I wirte shit down as it occurs and the write a summary of it a couple days before the appointment, include questions I have after reviewing stuff, new thoughts on care that occur tome, all of it gets written down and we go over it at clinic each time.
since I started writing it all down and keeping ttrack of it better his care has improved tenfold. everythign thats occured and brought questions gets answered and nothing is forgoten.
get it all written down over the next week, then make an appointment and discuss it.
that is what they are there for, to go over all the details and work it out to get you better care, its your problem tomake sure they have the right information and details to work with to begin with.

in the birth control there is estrogen. that is what i'm alegic to. i have polycyct overy where my body regcts the estogen and my own insulin levels.

yes he has kid and i do however not with each other. and there is not rally anymoere stress than before. ty

my doctors all know the situation i've been refured to 3 spechalists and they are dumbfounded that i even had to kids in my teens this is one thing they can't figure out. i was hoping someone has had this same problem ty for you coment.

thank you for your coment i hope things work out for your son. yes we do however wright everything down to the very bitter last detail. they run lots of tests and hope one day they can fight this i will not lose hope. as far as trewatment goes its only so mfar they can go because of my alergies which i am full of red splotches but i still lafgh. i aperchiat everyones coments and am truly grest full.