I want to stop masturbating. I don't do it that often, when I get bored and lonely. I don't want to have sex with anyone until I'm married and I feel like I'm cheating. I end up feeling even more depressed after I masturbate, because I know I'll never have anyone touch me anywhere. It's like the only time I feel anything. I don't like masturbating. Maybe this isn't the place to talk about feelings.
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I want to stop
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This IS the place to talk about all this so don't worry about that.As for stop masturbating, masturbating is a natural thing for male and females. It's something a lot of being, not just human being, do. Though I can relate, when I was younger I used to feel depressed after masturbating like I did something wrong. But as I got older I realized it's something everyone does and it's a very natural and SAFE thing to do.BUT it answer your question, keep yourself busy. Anytime you feel like you're about to masturbate find something else to do. Go jogging, play video games, work out etc etc. Keep your mind busy.
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Thanks for understanding. It all just feels cheap.
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In reply to:I know I'll never have anyone touch me anywhere Hey, I used to think that, too, yet I met my BF at the age of 18.. Better late than never. I'm sure this sounds like what everyone else says, but everyone has their person, it just might take more time for you to find them.As for the main topic, I still feel bad after watching some kinds of porn. Well, nothing against adult movies, but a lot of them look plain gross and unnatural. As for masturbation, I was lucky to have grown up in an environment where it was deemed normal. (Well, not my fam, they never talked about it, but my girl-friends). So it was not until I was past puberty that I found out masturbation was considered 'immoral' by some people.
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I just feel like I've made a promise and I'm not sticking to it, not waiting for marriage to feel pleasure. I didn't mean cheating on a person. I don't know if that makes sense. Maybe masturbation just doesn't mean the same thing to me as it does to someone else.
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its funny you should mention this today.Penn & Teller: Bullshit just had an episode on yesterday about masterbation/premarital sex, etc.Basically, masterbation is natural and there have even been reports of fetus's masterbating in the womb. Crazy.