I have a lot of friends that are girls. They all go for this bad boy crap and they get hurt with in weeks. The guys dont treat them good and dont play them any real attion other than when they want some ass. Plus they are dumb as dirt.Yet im a guy who is smart, kinda good looking, i really care, and want to treat her right. they look over me like im nothing. nice guys finsh last, always.
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Why do girls do this crap?
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Bad is sexy. People (male and female) get a kind of masochistic pleasure out of being hurt emotionally by people they find sexy. If someone ever gets what they want they get bored quickly, being hurt keeps it exciting. Guys and girls fall for this.It would be worth your while, not being less nice as such, but remembering that sometimes its in your advantgae not to answer every call or agree to everything a girl says.
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I don't know anyone whos had a meaningful relationship when they went for the 'bad' person. Unless they're both 'bad' people, that seems to work in a weird way...
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girls go for the bad boy because they are exciting, and challenging it's not the same old stuff. but not all girls are this way, i actually prefer the good guy. most of the guys i have really been into have been clean cut and basically people you would want to bring home to mom. although i am not opposed to the bad boy either. there is something sexy about not being with someone your parents or friends approve of.
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Its called Sods Law.At the end of the day the decision is not yours to make, and if your a "good guy" then you won't try to influence their decision in anything other than an unbiased way with their best interest at heart.If they want the "Bad fuckwit pre-school drop out Boy" who are you to say they can't have it.The above is correct, girls are excited by getting hurt because it makes the good times even better. So you have a choice, you can either be a complete dumb-fuck who treats girls badly, or you can treat girls correctly and with respect (as you say you do). You may not get what you want, but you will know that secretly, you have done what is right. That is reward enough. Or at least it is for me.Mr. NutsP.s. Your right, nice guys do finish last, but with the most integrity.And that is important.Never forget that.
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bad is sexy as hell!I had a nice bf and he was nothing .we didn't do anything.he was to shy.but he was dumb (kinda) sooooooooo.But i'd probably like a guy like you.
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your... profile doesn't seem to nice