I've just had a sexual relationship with a girl that has genital herpes (without a current outbreak).
the sexual intercourse itself was protected (condom), but there was also some (unprotected) female to male oral sex.
in addition, in another occation with the same girl I gave her a handjob while she was having her manstrual cycle. (I touched her blood).
so I am a bit worried and would be thankful for some advice on the subject...
1. is it true that you can get genital herpes even while wearing a condom and even when she's not on an outbreak? (the condom doesn't cover the whole male genital...)
2. can u get genital herpes if she gives you oral sex (once again no current outbreak)
3. can you get herpes if your get exposed to her blood??
I'll be greatful for any advice...