do you have to go? and when you say start sexual activity.. .i assume this means fingering(im a guy... lol) but me and my gf havnet had sex but i have fingered her... and we cant just go to her mom and say "hey, i fingered her so can she go to the ginocologist" would it be ok if she jsut waited to go?
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Ginocologist
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i dont know about fingering per se but i think that either means intercourse or oral basically anything that can contract a disease
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how would yo uget an STD from oral if youve both never had anything happen down there?
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one of you couldve contracted it other ways,theres bad needles,from your mothers if she breastfed i believe,stds dont actually just come for sex
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ive never been shot and she wasnt breast fed.. so i doubt either of us have one... how long would it take for symptoms to start?
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well there are other ways,and im not saying you have one,i was just saying that theres other ways of contracting it
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ok... thanks! I just dont want either of us checked(im 14 shes 13) well.. thanks again : )
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yup and if your going to be sexually active you should get checked
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cant just go to parents and say starting to be sexual need to get checked....
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well yeah but im not quite clear on all the mechanics of that i think theres free clinics you can get checked at but not sure
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ok... well... i doubt shell wanna be checked unless she thinks something is up... so.. well go then.. or when we can drive...
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If she's gotten her period and she's about to become sexually active then it's time to see a gyno.
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Girls should start going to the OB when they start their period, but most don't go that early.