Get the wife to open to new ideas

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how would i go about trying to get my wife to open her mind up to some new ideas?have tried all kinds of different things and no luck and help would be great

Like painting the room a different color?

ideas with sex not thing like that trying new sex things

I think he meant more like sexual awakenings. how to get her to be a nasty girl in bed and a proper woman on the streetand in front of company.Or if steve is correct, to get her to wash the car and cook dinner

personally I reccomend kissing her ass...alot
thats what I do. literally and figurativly. if she feels safe with you shes more apt to open up and live out some secret dirty shit she keeps to herself.

i have tried all the things i know bro lol i have tried kissing up and all that good stuff

How about bringing a little porn into the bedroom. You all can watch it together laugh at the dumb-asses making it. It'll be a little kinky that way, watching porn together. After watching it still have sex just as always, then maybe later, assuming she becomes more comfortable with it, try some of the stuff you've watched. Maybe it would make her more open to new things (in the long run) without having to just jump in and do them right away if she's embarrassed or whatever.Would that approach work for any ladies here?

Yeah I know what he meant.. I was just beeing a smartass, since his question was vague.

the porn thing work a little while ago made her kinda crazy and try some things but it is not working anymore:( even brought home some new stuff to watch

have you tried letting her have 100% controll of it? and maybe she doesnt know what it is yuo want? if yuor both being 100% honest about what turns ya on and what you want you may find common ground. communication is one of the most important parts for mind blowing sex

she knows what i want and she know she turns me on i mean hell i walk around with a hard on a lot of the time

so do I, but my woman didnt know what made me fucking insane till she tired it out after I told her she was in charge, fuck I didnt know it made me insane till she did it. I found it disgusting, so when other girls asked I said no, she didnt ask she just did it and I found Im into some shit I previously found disgusting.

Maybe you could ease her back into it, by being pro-active. I mean instead of getting her to do stuff you want, are there any kinky things you could do that turn her on, yet don't require her reciprocity.A lot of women like to watch their man jack-off. Maybe that could get you to the path of kink.

gonna try it worth a shot

yea she has wanted to watch me get myself off i might try that and see if it will do anything

That is a good idea. I would also try going to an adult store...maybe find a new toy that she would like to try. Or maybe some sexy lingerie. How does she feel about dressing up? I like when my guy buys me some sexy panties or a new outfit.

Is she interested in regular old sex?

got her an outfit a couple times and she has only put it on a couple times not that interested in toys it seems either we have a couple but she dont really care for them at all.like i said sometime i think it is an endless battle to get nothing out of it. but i am not gonna stop

yea we have regular old sex.

a sex toy?there are so many to choose from and some that jsut suck.The best money I ever spent on my womans sex toys is for the rabbit, worth every cent, someplace around 130 buks If I remember right. I highley reccomend anyone that uses sex toys pick one up.