Another stupid question in another stupid box. heading off to college and wondering is it normal to get naked in the dorm room just like that. what about walking around naked or just changing in the day. And what bout walking through the halls (dorm) naked?
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Uhhhhhhhhhh................
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Probably not. You have to respect your roommate.Then how do you change your underwear? If you roommate can't handle your being naked while you change them in your own room with the door closed, he either needs to close his eyes, step outside, or deal with his body issues.
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2 and 3 are contradictory. I suppose one could change his underpants under a dressing gown if he is very shy.
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Times have changed since I was in College 20 years ago.(I know.. I'ma old fucker) I was always myself in the dorms.You guys will probably become good friends and hang out an stuff.. I slept naked. I always did, always have and always will. I also was known to study late at night naked. LOL We both saw each other naked when ever we were naked....It was not a big deal and it wassn't a sexual thing. The only thing I didn't do in front of him was jack off. I waited until he was gone or alseep. I did see him doing it a few times when he thought I was asleep, but we never talked about it..Just be yourself and do what your comfortable with doing. There will be a hell of a lot more to worry about than seeing your roommate naked!...
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The only thing I didn't do in front of him was jack off. I waited until he was gone or alseep. I did see him doing it a few times when he thought I was asleep, but we never talked about it..
And what makes you think he didn't see you do it when you *thought* he was asleep?
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it kinda depends on your roomates etc. theres no exatc rule. if you need to get naked to change or take a shower etc. thats totally ok, but hanging out naked might make others uncomfortable. my roommate would sit naked at his desk after coming back from a shower. i thought it was weird at frist then it didnt bother me
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Good point Damien. You’re right! When presented that way, I’m sure he got an eyeful a few times too.Oh and Willy…. I used to sit at my desk naked after taking a shower too. It usually lead into doing school work naked for a few hours… I wasn’t looking at porn or doing anything nasty. I wasn’t trying to make him feel uncomfortable, which I guess he wasn’t. I was just being myself... We became good friends and still are.
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well if i were in that situation and that was the only chair we had in there or something id ask him to lay down a towel first lol
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U could just ask ur room mate if he minds if ur not sure
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I forgot all about the dudes that walked around in the halls naked... Yikes!. Some of those dudes were strange...LOL. Agreed. keep it in the showers and or your room...
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Oh and Willy…. I used to sit at my desk naked after taking a shower too. It usually lead into doing school work naked for a few hours… I wasn’t looking at porn or doing anything nasty. I wasn’t trying to make him feel uncomfortable, which I guess he wasn’t. I was just being myself... We became good friends and still are.I asked him about it one time and he said it was important to be totally dry when you get dressed. It didnt bother me once I got used to it actually it was good for me cause in a way I relaxed about being nude in front of others too.Im rooming with the same guy next year too.
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Yes, it's fine to be naked in the dorm room in front of your roommate. Just don't hang around all the time naked. The only time my roommate and I were naked in the room was when we were putting on underwear coming back from the shower, so it wasn't anymore than a few seconds. I don't think it would be appropriate to be hanging around your room naked for hours with your roommate around, unless you've discussed it with him and he's OK with it. Same goes for walking in the halls naked - it's not a big deal to wrap a towel around yourself. Not everyone wants to see your willy, and covering yourself is respectful to the majority who don't. In the shower, everyone is naked anyway, so it doesn't matter there. But the hallways are different, and more of a public place, so you should be covered there, IMO.
