im just curious, for things like kissing, going down on a girl, etc, i think i might somehow screw these things up by saying something stupid just before the kiss or whatever. like say the girl wants me to go down on her, how will i know? will she say something? its very confusing thank you
Awkward body language
well there is a chance that you could find a girl who will,or you could just start with the breasts and kiss your way down and give her a devilish smile and see how she reacts
You tend to go in stages. A girl probably won't expect you to go straight from only kissing to giving oral, and probably won't want you to. It's usual to move to the breasts before you go all the way south. And don't neglect kissing and nibbling her ears and neck on the way. Taking things slowly is much better than taking them fast.
Generally, not much is said. Most girls don't feel comfortable telling you in advance how far you should go. It's usually in body language. If she takes all her clothes off, that's a strong indication she wants to speed things up; but more usually she expects you to take the initiative and please her, and she'll let you know if she's happy, and if you're going too far.
Remember that each date you start at the beginning with kissing - you don't start where you left off last time. Women need a lot of warming up. But even more importantly, remember you are not being graded. Making out is two people discovering each other. You can do it at your own pace and in your own way. It's not a test! There are bound to be misunderstandings, but that's all part of the process. It should be something you both enjoy.