An interesting situation

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First of all greetings to you all since this is my first post.

Now on to my problem or situation whichever you prefer.I'm in college, and there is this girl there, now up until some five weeks ago she was in a happy relationship that was about 4,5 years old (she si 20 now, and the guy is 23).So anyway five weeks ago they had a fight and she and I hooked up, and well you may say she cheated on him.After that the two of them took some time off from each other (two weeks to be exact), during which time she was supposed to experience something new (with me of course), however she called him after only one week had passed and they got back together.

So that was the prelude.

She currently likes both of us and the two of us have cheated on him some more since then, however she says that she does not want to break it off with him, and that she is not really attracted to me.Well lets just say she can't make up here mind, in the past two weeks she has told me about a dozen times that we should be only friends and everytime we just could not stand beeing next to eachother without making out.

There is another catch, the guy in question is going to away in three weeks time, and will be away for three weaks. So the two of us have agreed to wait until he is gone and than see where is this thing is going, but as I have said she can't really make up her mind and the way she feels towards me changes on a daily basis and I'm getting a bit tired form all the mind-changing.The point is that I really like her but also I'm slowly losing patience.

So my question is, do you thik it is worth it and wheather it can go somewhere or you can just give me your opinion on the situation and maybe a creative solution.If you need more info just ask.

In the end sorry for the long post I just had to get it of my chest.

Dump her. She needs to choose one or the other.

get rid of her, it's a mess, and if she really wanted to be with you she would be

I bet when the guy goes away for three weeks she decides she wants to be with you, and then when he comes back it goes back to the way it is now.I don't see any future in this relationship. For her, you were really just a bit of comfort after the fight, and the occasional bit of variety.Oh, and welcome to A2A.

Thanks for the input, I figured as much, its a shame though she is really something.

she is not "really somethign" to do that to her bf and youshe's just a typical girl who wants multiple guys chasing after her, praising the ground she walks on, so she can stand back and pick and chooseok that might have been a bit harsh but its a common theme i've seen in girls around here that myself and friends have been involved withand if thats not enough for you to stop, ask yourself this:if you were in the opposite situation, that you were the BF in this case, and your gf was cheating on you behind your back, wouldn't you prefer it if the guy stood up and said "no" and broke it off?treat others how you want to be treatedif everyone did that, world would be so much betterbut i know man... its not always easy to do. damn attraction