Canadian girlfriend

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I have been talkin to this girl in canada online of course for a while nowAnd for the past couple of weeks she has been thinkin of comin over to see me but she is not sure what to tell her parentsShe thinks if she just leaves her mum will phone the police straight away and then i will get into trouble

Depending on your ages, you can get into a lot of trouble. She's just planning to get an airplane ticket and cross the ocean? Don't you need a passport if you're a Canadian trying to get into the UK? Do you think your parents would be concerned if you just disappeared one day, and then they found out that you went overseas? For all her parents know, you're a sexual predator or a slave trader.Are you serious?

well i know it sounds stupid but we trust eachotherwe have seen eachother on cam and spoke to eachother on the phonei can see how hard it would be for her parents and stuff but she has lots of trouble where she lives now and would love to just see her for a week

I understand what you want to do, and that you trust each other. But what did you think about the other questions I posed?Does she just happen to have money lying around for an airline ticket? Are you living with your parents? What would they think about some girl just showing up from overseas? And if you're older than her by a big enough margin, you can wind up in very big trouble.

she has enough money for a ticket and yes i do live with my parents but my mate said we could both stay at hisand i am 3 years older

What are your ages? Your parents don't mind if you just disappear for a while? She has a passport? Her parents won't go completely nuts if she just disappears one day?I'm telling you, you can get yourself into some serious sh*t.

well im 19 and shes 16my parents dont mind and know all about herbut her parents dont know about me

I'm not sure whether your ages will be an issue in your country, if you decide to do anything sexual.But you didn't address the other questions. Passport? Her parents? If her parents have half a brain, they'll be on the phone to the police the next morning, and it won't be too hard to track down her airline flight. And keep in mind that your on-line communiques are not really confidential. If the police are at all clever, it won't take them long to track her down to your address.If your parents don't mind that she comes over, without telling her own parents (did you tell them that?), then your parents have some issues. And if your parents don't mind, then why do you have to stay with her at a friend's house?Dude, this is a very bad idea.

shes gettin a passport and i said her parents dont know where i livemy parents dont know about her parents not knowing and my parents only know about her not about her coming overi know they wont let her stay here thats y i said we r satyin at my friends

i said her parents dont know where i liveAnd I said that, since you've guys communicated by computer, they can find out. Or the police can.So you're not concerned about her parents going nuts? Her father (or mother) might get on a plane, find you, and beat the crap out of you.It sounds like you already know what you want to do, so I'm not sure what you're asking. In your first post you said:In reply to:She thinks if she just leaves her mum will phone the police straight away and then i will get into troubleand the answer is, quite possibly. But she will definitely get into trouble. Does she plan to ever return home, or would she move in with you and your friend forever?

no its just like a week or 2 thing then she would go back home

I'm telling you, her parents will go crazy. I don't know what she is thinking. Has she run away from home before?Just be prepared. If she comes over, you might have to deal with the police, if they come looking for her.

yeah i understand about the dangers of coming over here and so does sheif she tells her mum then she will probably stop her from speaking and i dont want that cause i really really like talkin to her a lot

Well...good luck. When she returns home you can be sure they won't let her talk to you again. They'll probably take her computer away, or monitor what she does when she's on.You really need to think this through.

i am thinking this through trust methats why i would like her parents to know about me first and that but her mum probably wont let her talk to me again

it would be better if they met you first. if it were my daughter there's no way I'd let her go over seas to see some guy I haven't met or know of. pfft that's a laugh. maybe you should talk to her on the phone or something. have you even talked to this girl on the phone?

yeah ive talked to this girl on the phonethe thing is her mum doesnt agree to her talking to people from diffrent countries and i understand thati would gladly meet her parents first but i just aint got the money to get over there even though i would love to

well then you guys are in the dump because I don't' know how that's going to happen for you guys. maybe they'll change their minds. it might be hard for them to let their 16 year old daughter go over seas to see an 18 year old guy they don't know. let us know how that goes.

will do and thx for the help