3 Basic Steps to Attract Any Girl!!!

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First of all I would like to say how much i've matured and grown over the last year. you know what my first post in this site is? i believe it was something along the lines of "how do i make a girl love me?" LMAO! it's so funny and amazing to see how much i've changed over the year!

The Three Basic Principles to Attract ANY girl !!

So the 3 Principles are as follow:

1. • Cocky + Funny aka "C+F"
2. • Kinesthetics aka "Kino"
3. • "Keep-away"

Now for the elaboration:

1. Cocky + Funny: Cocky plus funny is the basic attitude of a Don Juan. Proper execution of C+F is basically just being or acting carefree, relaxed and not worried about girls. If Kino and Keep away are applied, and this principle is not, then the girl doesn't think you are outgoing, just a quiet flirt. You need to be loud, funny, hold your part in a conversation and such. Be funny, imaginative. If you have a problem with that, then I suggest reading, watching Comedy Central (especially the stand-up comedy). Open your perspective on things to talk about, and open your perspective on how to make those things interesting. Kind of like a teacher. Students like and pay attention to an interesting teacher more than a boring one, correct? Of course!

2. Kino: One of the most widely used tactics in the DJ arsenal is the strategy of Kino. For those of you who don't know, Kino is defined as:

• Non-intimidating touching of areas such as the arm, hair, face, etc. used to show interest, gain trust, and get laid...

Examples of effective kino are:

Tickling: very great! And also non-intimidating
Leaning: Good, decent, offers some up close kino
Pushing: Mild physical action, just playful shove, no out-of -control football player-style rush! A little rough-housing never hurt anyone!

If you use "C+F" and "keep away", but no Kino, you do not inspire her interest in you. You do not grab her attention very well; you do not evoke her to think about you. So be sure to use plenty of Kino to grab her attention. Girls like men who are open with their sexuality. The ones open with their sexuality are the ones who get the ladies. Sexuality is derived from the hormone testosterone, and expression of testosterone makes a woman insane with passion! The more man you are, the more womanly of a girl you get. See the correlation? That's why it's important to use Kino! And remember: "Advantages are not given, they are TAKEN" ~ Metallica

3. Keep away: This technique solidifies the statements that you make using C+F and Kino. The Keep away technique is doesn't have a definition, but needs to be explained! I'll make it easy for you.

An AFC can be defined as: - doormat, no clue with women. AKA "Nice Guy." He gives all he can to a woman, puts her on a pedestal, and shares all his feelings with her. He also gives her A LOT OF ATTENTION.

The effect of "keep-away" plays off the attention craving that women have. Give her a little bit off attention at first, using Kino and C+F to capture her interest. Then, all of a sudden, once you are sure you have established a foothold in her mind as a somebody that is possible to have a relationship with, suddenly take all that attention away. The girl will say to herself "Hmm, why has he taken all that attention away from me? Am I not attractive? Did I do something wrong?" And she throws such questions at herself and motivates her to start talking to you. That way, it's much easier to start a relationship if she gives you attention. This is also a good way to tell if she would date you or not. Keep away frequently, don't give her too much attention, or else you will have to keep spill more of yourself out to keep a conversation going. Try to be a man of mystery! It captivates her attention and gets HER to focus on YOU, not the other way around. This is what makes "keep-away" so great!

Now, if you use C+F and Kino but not "keep away" then you are setting yuorself up for a shot in the face with "Let's Just Be Friends" caliber bullets. You don't want to friends, you want to be boyfriend and girlfriend!

oh btw-
AFC - average frustrated chump "nice guy"
Don Juan - person who is the master of getting chicks

well, i think, that 1/3 of those isnt a complete load of crap, you gotta be cocky and funny when trying to attract a girl, but "keep away" is a fat load of bull hockey. before me and my gf started goign out, we told each other like, all our major secrets that we never told anyone else, that way, we both knew thta we trusted each other implicitly. and as for that "kinosthetics" it sounds liek a bunch of new age mumbo jumbo. you really wanna know the secret? dont be a pussy about it, you want a girl, go after her, dont TRY to attract her, just be yourself.

dude, see this is wut i'm talking about. people think that if you be yourself and be nice to a girl and talk to her whenever you can will get her to like you... well WAKE THE FVCK UP! this is the mindset that our society has made. Our society has made women stronger and stronger, and has given them much more freedom. i'm not saying this is wrong, but it's not the way nature intended it to be. actually attracting a girl is VERY simple yet so difficult that i had to break it down into 3 sections. the BIG PICTURE is to be MASCULINE. again, our society has looked down on men and makes us ashamed of our desires. but it is our trUE NATURE that attracts women the most.think about it C+F - a masculine guy doesn't care about attracting the girl and does what he wants and is BOLD. kino - a horney guy wants to touch the chick right?keep away - a guy that is uninfluenced by our society is originally self-centered and doesn't go around chasing girls.think back to the ancient times, those guys were still getting laid right? how else are we still here? back then the men were masculine and had all the qualities that are attractive to women BY NATURE. it is our female friends, mothers, and romance movies that has twisted the male's thought and made us into wussies.

Originally Posted By: rvbapocalypsewell, i think, that 1/3 of those isnt a complete load of crap, you gotta be cocky and funny when trying to attract a girl, but "keep away" is a fat load of bull hockey. before me and my gf started goign out, we told each other like, all our major secrets that we never told anyone else, that way, we both knew thta we trusted each other implicitly. and as for that "kinosthetics" it sounds liek a bunch of new age mumbo jumbo. you really wanna know the secret? dont be a pussy about it, you want a girl, go after her, dont TRY to attract her, just be yourself. ok so i just read ur WHOLE post and being yourself is the biggest piece of bullshit. you see that guy in the corner that smells and plays video games all day long? he's being himself, but i'd bet u he aint getting any pvssey. the ONLY way "being yourself" works is if you are already really popular and good looking or have qualities that are attractive to chicks.... but not many guys ORIGINALLY have this, although it can be learned.and as for kino, that shit works and is probably more important that the other 2 combined. don't be dissin on my stuff unless you've already tried it.and "keep away" depends on many things. it may not be that important for average girls, but it is probably the most important thing if you're trying to get a hot chick that is used to have guys fall head over heels for her. not giving her attention will make her question herself and make her separate you from the other guys as someone different. the truth is, every hot chick is wanting a guy to challenge her, since she is always getting what she wants on a pussy platter.boom headshot?....

You wake the fuck up and smell the bullshit! i have a girlfriend, and d'ya know what we did the first tiem i went to her place? played video games, i didnt have to pretend to be someone i wasnt to get my girlfriend, i was open and honest and funny, and that worked, you make it sound like your trying to write a walkthrough for a game, a girl isnt a game, you dont need a manual, it helps to cheat and get some inside info on what she's feeling by askign other ppl, and i think it ends up hurting the relationship when u get into it and she finds out that you realy arent as charming as she thought, maybe the key is to actualy BECOME that charming and cocky and funny, dont tell me it cant be done, becaue I've done it, 3 years ago i was a shy nerd who had no friends that were girls, now, I've got so many friends that are girls, its crazy, I'm outgoing, honest with people, and like i said, i didn't have to use any "strategies" to get my girlfriend. so dont tell me that being yourself doesnt work, because what good is it if you have a girlfriend who doesnt liek you, but the image of yourself you've created for her? oh? what are these? victory guns? why not? *bam!**bam!bam!

ok....well iv never heard it described as "kino"...and i think its a little strange that it is a "technique"...but i liked the whole non-threatening touching thing b4 my bf and i started dateing...but as far as that whole keep away thing goes...thats not accurate.....iv had a fair amout of gyes show interest in me...and then all of a sudden disappear..i just kinda forgot about them and moved on...and a few of my friends who i have been told are "Hotties" have had gyes do that, and my friends just moved on as wel...this is a fair warning if you act like that girls are more likely to think your a spaz than a love interest...at least in my opinion...what i find attractive is when a gye is honest and dosent play games (like the whole keep away thingy) and can just be himself.

thank you m'dear, you've just illustrated my point, I'd kiss you, but...well...i cant, anyway. A girl is not a game to be wone, she's a human being, now you sex god, are clearly under the impression that to attract a girl you must catch her attention by being outrageous and out there, and all these other things, but you know what? maybe all you gotta do is stop overcompensating, and just talk to a girl, no "techniques" no "strategies" just talk to her, cause thats what I did, and i think our relationship is stronger for it then had i doen as u suggest guys do

*ding ding ding* you win the grand prize! Congrats, you are NOT one of the meat heads who buy books one how to throw lines or trick women into bed.

Yes indeed, women ARE people..hey...you meat heads out there, calm down now! It's true, it's REALLY true, women AREN'T just there to suck your cock!

If you get a women into bed by being an actor, chances are she was just looking for casual sex anyways. If you're a normal person, you can entertain a woman without having to be a bullshitter; eventually you will be found out, you will constantly engaged in bad relationships, and ultimately you will spend the rest of your shitty life either with someone who hate, or being very alone.

I personally believe that whenever anyone tries to over-analyze how to attract a girl and try to turn that into some sort of manual, they are simply doing the impossible. However, after reading your post, I think you just have a bad case diarrhea of the mouth, because you have no idea what you are talking about.Let's start with your "Cocky + Funny" idea. This part I do, somewhat, agree with. When I was dating, I was looking for someone with a great personality, which includes a good sense of humor. But no one should never, ever have to "act". You don't want to attract someone with a false image of yourself. That's sneeky and in poor taste and it's not really fair to the girl, or even to yourself. And will that say about you? You'll come off as a liar and can't be trusted.The whole "Kino" thing is risky. There's this thing called personal space and if you move too fast and invade that, there's going to be problems. This always differs from person to person. You can't simply assume that every girl likes to be touched in any way.The "Keep Away" idea is not only insulting but complete crap. You're trying to turn the idea of dating into some sort of game without realizing you're dealing with people with emotions.Originally Posted By: sex godThen, all of a sudden, once you are sure you have established a foothold in her mind as a somebody that is possible to have a relationship with, suddenly take all that attention away. The girl will say to herself "Hmm, why has he taken all that attention away from me? Am I not attractive? Did I do something wrong?" And she throws such questions at herself and motivates her to start talking to you.That is one serious dick move. Why would you do this to anyone? Having someone to go through that kind of mental/emotional trip is seriously unfair. This can cause someone to have their self-esteem to be lowered or go through unnecessary emotional stress. In fact, there are people who come on this board to post these kinds of situations.Originally Posted By: sex godthis is the mindset that our society has made. Our society has made women stronger and stronger, and has given them much more freedom. i'm not saying this is wrong, but it's not the way nature intended it to be.And now you're either sexist or a complete meathead. That explains a lot of your bullcrap.Originally Posted By: sex godthink back to the ancient times, those guys were still getting laid right? how else are we still here? back then the men were masculine and had all the qualities that are attractive to women BY NATURE. it is our female friends, mothers, and romance movies that has twisted the male's thought and made us into wussies.LOL! Can you seriously back that up? Do you have any idea how completely different the idea of sex is now compared to the past?Originally Posted By: sex godok so i just read ur WHOLE post and being yourself is the biggest piece of bullshit. you see that guy in the corner that smells and plays video games all day long? he's being himself, but i'd bet u he aint getting any pvssey. the ONLY way "being yourself" works is if you are already really popular and good looking or have qualities that are attractive to chicks.... but not many guys ORIGINALLY have this, although it can be learned.Being yourself is THE only way to attract someone. That is the only simple solution; no step by step manual or any other kind of method can tell you that. Rvbapocalypse is a great example as well as my boyfriend. My boyfriend is the biggest geek in the world; he plays video games, wears glasses, collects toy figures, and other geeky things. But he has the greatest personality in the world. He's hilarious and a true gentelman; he opens doors for me, listens to what I have to say, complements me all the time, and everything else I could ask for. And that is why he is my fiancee.Trust me when I say looks can only get you so far. Before I met my current boyfriend, I was apporached by other good-looking guys but I knew it would never work because our personalities would not mix. Beauty fades, but personalities are forever.Originally Posted By: sex godit may not be that important for average girls, but it is probably the most important thing if you're trying to get a hot chick that is used to have guys fall head over heels for her. not giving her attention will make her question herself and make her separate you from the other guys as someone different. the truth is, every hot chick is wanting a guy to challenge her, since she is always getting what she wants on a pussy platter.Yeah, you're a complete meathead...apparently, women are just for sex.What I want to ask you is does this crazy idea of yours really work? Have you actually done this and have a girlfriend? Seriously, you need to drop this idea of yours, learn that dating isn't a game, show a bit of respect for women, and maybe you won't be alone for the rest of your life.

If I could, I would kiss you and give you one huge hug. I hope other guys will read your posts and learn from them. Much love to you sweetie!

I'm sorry, what were you saying? I wasn"t listening.

Was that meant to be funny or clever?? I don't quite understand your post..

Anyway. star and rvb, just read all of your posts and I completely agree. I would much rather be with a guy that is himself and open, not playing mind games. When I met my man he was completely honest with me and told me how he felt about me from the start - we've been together 3 years this year.

There should never be any need for mind games within a relationship. If you genuinely want a proper relationship, not just a quick fling, you need to be open from the start otherwise you seriously are setting yourself up for a fall. However - if you just want sex... the type of girls that will go for this mind game that sex-god has put forward, are the ones who will be an easy lay.

ok i am NOT saying to be someone your not. i'm saying to change yourself and improve yourself so that when you DO be yourself, you'll be more like-able.

ok this is sorta a reply to everyone. 1. dating IS a game ... at least in high school2. this is for people that don't want to settle down and get married and shit, this is simply for attraction3. there is NO (maybe 1 outta 1000) girl that does not like to be touched. when a baby is born, and someone touches him/her, it soothes them. touching is wanted by instinct, people cannot control that.4. AGAIN i'm am definatly NOT saying you should be someone ur not. i'm a strong believer in being yourself, but my point is to IMPROVE yourself.5. the "keep away" isn't really ignoring the girl, but just not giving her attention as usual. this ONLY works if you've attracted the girl to a certain degree already.4.

If some guy that I was just dating started that whole kino thing (mild pushing, tickling, whatever), I think I would shove my fist down his throat. And let me tell you, if a guy were playing 'keep away' games with me (because that is what it is...a game) he would never have a chance with me. I would have already moved on to another guy. Your description is that of a loser.

very true helmsman. and since when are women all the same? so if a guy acts the way that sex god says, he's gonna get women drooling over him? LOL!! thats freaking funny.

so in a year, sex god, you think you know everything about women? think again my dear.

Excuse me dear, but where and how exactly did you come up with this highly juvenile and inaccurate information? Apparently you know nothing of the female species because all that I've read in your post comes across as complete crapola my friend. How do you define non-intimidating touching? Quiet frankly, if I'm in the beginning stages of a relationship with a man, I'm not all about the tickling and gentle pushes because I highly doubt that we know each other well enough to be evading each others personal space. That's my personal opinion, and I'm sure there are plenty of other girls who feel the same. Not every woman is attracted to the same thing, some like men with a little cockiness to them and some detest that trait. All you need to know about attracting the interest of some lady is to be yourself, be real, and stay away from the mind games! Any woman who catches you trying to pull that crap will boot your ass out of her life in a heartbeat!!

Personally I don't like cocky guys. This 'quiet flirt' sounds way more appealing. I hate guys always running off at the mouth. If a guy I didn't know that well started touching me, I'd feel he was coming on too strong and invading my personal space as others have said. To me it was seem like he's after one thing, if he gets too physical right away. I'd get rid of him quick.Advantages are taken, like taking advantage of someone? That's not a favorable tactic.I don't care what anybody says, I'll take the nice guy over the bad boy any day.Every woman has different qualities and find certain things attractive. If you keep this up, you won't even find the girl that would date a jerk like you.

Originally Posted By: AmzOriginally Posted By: JEDI-ALCHEMISTI'm sorry, what were you saying? I wasn"t listening.Was that meant to be funny or clever?? I don't quite understand your post.. Sorry, that would be my boyfriend being a smart ass again. No worries, I'll make sure he's spanked.